Project Swagger with Robin Arzón
Project Swagger with Robin Arzón

Why I Cast Spells Every Night (Plus: Lifting While Marathon Training)

September 29, 2026

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“When did it become a crime to enjoy things? To get excited about things, to be about it.” That’s the question Robin Arzón opens with on this solo episode of Project Swagger, and she answers it by making a full-throated case for being “delightfully unserious.” The episode’s central argument is that we have become so optimized, so focused on productivity and external metrics, that we have squeezed the whimsy out of ordinary life. Arzón’s invitation is to reclaim the small, personal rituals that make a day feel like yours—even if they look “cringe” to someone else.

The Magic of Ordinary Rituals

Arzón starts by describing her own evening routine, which she calls “getting on my witchy shit.” After her kids go to bed, she lights candles, puts on oils, and says “little rituals and casting spells.” She is quick to demystify this: “The words we speak, the words that are inside our brains cast a spell.” For her, these small acts are not about superstition but about intentionality and ownership of her space and time. Nobody needs them, she admits, but she loves them.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (01:47) **Welcome & Thesis: In Defense of Cringe** - Robin introduces the fall season and her personal nightly ritual of lighting candles, using oils, and casting spells, framing it as a defense of being "delightfully unserious."
  • 2 (03:13) **The Case for Whimsy & "Cringe"** - Robin argues that as we age and become overly optimized, we lose access to play and joy, and she advocates for embracing "cringy" enthusiasm.
  • 3 (05:27) **Six Prompts to Own Your Chaos** - Robin offers a series of reflective questions designed to help listeners identify and double down on the small rituals and joys that make their ordinary days feel like their own.
  • 4 (09:36) **The Goal: Whimsy, Not Toxic Positivity** - Robin clarifies that the aim is not to love every day or romanticize chores, but to fold in pleasure, ritual, and agency into daily life, not just for vacations or Saturdays.
  • 5 (13:40) **Listener Q&A: Lifting While Marathon Training** - Christina from Denver asks how to balance strength training with marathon training, and Robin gives specific, practical advice on how to periodize lifting during a race cycle.
  • 6 (16:26) **Listener Q&A: The Cellular Impact of Connection** - Rachel asks Robin what it feels like to have thousands of people sing her anthem back to her and to know the impact she's had on their lives.
  • 7 (19:18) **Next Week Tease & Outro** - Robin previews next week's episode on building a supplement toolkit and signs off.

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Guests on this episode

Robin Arzón

Show Notes

You need a delightfully unserious routine. Here's why. 

We live in an age where we're encouraged to become so optimized that we can take ourselves out of whimsy and joy. But I don't believe we should wait for a vacation or even a weekend to feel joy. I believe it's possible to ritualize whimsy into our ordinary Tuesdays. Today: the parts of my routine that exist purely for joy, and why you should embrace your cringe. 

Plus: I answer your questions on what a decade of your letters has meant to me, and share exactly how I keep lifting heavy during the final weeks of marathon training.

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