On Purpose with Jay Shetty
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MIKAYLA NOGUEIRA EXCLUSIVE: The Story She’s Finally Ready to Tell

October 5, 2026

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Mikayla Nogueira, the beauty creator with more than 20 million followers, sat down with Jay Shetty to tell the story behind the story—the one she says she is finally ready to share. At 28, she is at a turning point. Her twenties have been a blur of exponential growth, public scrutiny, a marriage to a partner in addiction recovery, a divorce finalized in July 2026, and the launch of her own brand, POV, at Sephora. Across the conversation, she draws a sharp distinction between the persona people see online and the person she is still learning to become.

The Confidence-Insecurity Paradox

Nogueira describes herself as both deeply insecure and remarkably confident. She does not see these as contradictory. "I'm a very insecure person and I struggle a lot with my self-esteem, but I have a lot of confidence about who I am," she says. The key, she explains, is self-awareness: she knows her insecurities, her mental health patterns, and her tendency to self-sabotage. That knowledge allows her to act despite the doubts. "At the end of the day when I lay my head on the pillow, those insecurities still exist, but I know at the end of the day it's all in my head and I know I'm capable of doing great things without letting those insecurities get in the way."

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (02:09) **Welcome & The Person Behind the Influencer** - Jay introduces Mikayla Nogueira, framing the conversation around the person behind the massive online success.
  • 2 (07:39) **The Confidence-Insecurity Paradox** - Mikayla explains the strange coexistence of deep insecurity and bold self-confidence.
  • 3 (11:26) **The Origin of a Makeup Obsession** - Mikayla traces her love for makeup back to her creative family and an Avon catalog.
  • 4 (15:06) **The 14-Year-Old with a 50-Page Business Plan** - Mikayla recounts the determination and early vision that drove her to pursue influencing as a career.
  • 5 (21:00) **The Moment of Giving Up** - Mikayla describes a brief period in college where she deleted everything and abandoned her dream.
  • 6 (22:58) **The First Person Who Believed in Her** - Mikayla gets emotional recounting the job interview at Ulta where a manager saw her potential.
  • 7 (30:42) **The Worst Day: COVID and Losing Everything** - Mikayla details the day the pandemic wiped out her job, her new HR position, and her master's program simultaneously.

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Guests on this episode

Jay Shetty

Show Notes

Jay sits down with beauty creator Mikayla Nogueira to go beyond the online persona and share the real story behind her rise. Mikayla opens up about the struggles that shaped her before finding success, the viral moment that changed her life overnight, and the painful reality of a marriage impacted by addiction and divorce. She also shares how she found her way forward, reconnected with her high school first love, and launched her own beauty brand with Sephora.

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Jay Shetty

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What We Discuss:

00:00 Introduction

00:45 Why Share Your Story Now?

01:31 Beyond The Influencer Persona

02:46 Childhood Memories That Shaped Her

03:45 Bullying & Discovering Makeup At Age 10

05:24 The Insecurities Behind the Confidence

06:48 Expressing Her True Self Online

08:55 The Origin Of Her Passion For Makeup

11:18 Work Ethic And Thinking Big

12:37 Creating Her Very First YouTube Video

13:58 Presenting A 50-Page Business Plan

16:30 Returning To Her Hometown & Donating Makeup

18:00 Getting Hired At Ulta Beauty

23:52 Letting Go of the Future She Planned

28:10 Losing Her Job and Finding a New Path

31:34 The First Viral Video

37:08 Manifesting Success & Building A Content Engine

41:53 Experiencing Her First Cancellation

45:25 Reflecting on Past Controversies

48:56 The Mental Health Toll of Rapid Growth

52:54 The Boston Accent

56:48 Meeting Her Ex-Husband Cody

59:41 Navigating Addiction In A Relationship

01:04:08 Dating An Influencer & Dating An Addict

01:05:56 Marriage Through Addiction and Relapse

01:13:00 A Harrowing Late-Night Emergency

01:18:11 Making the Decision to Divorce

01:33:53 The Path To Divorce

01:40:46 Finally A Fresh Start

01:46:45 Reconnecting With High School First Love, Zach

01:52:21 Building Her Beauty Brand (POV)

01:57:30 Looking Back

01:59:34 Mikayla On Final Five

Episode Resources:

Facebook | https://www.facebook.com/share/1C43BCLCFi/?mibextid=wwXIfr

TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@mikaylanogueira

Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/mikaylajmakeup

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