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It's fall. Let's get cozy!

October 8, 2026

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It's fall. Let's get cozy!

Marielle Segarra opens the episode with a small but telling story: jet-lagged at 5 a.m. after a trip to Poland, she lit candles in the dark and sat awake with the covers over her legs. That simple act of intentionally embracing the darkness, she says, transformed her experience of the season. "When you light candles with the intention of embracing and celebrating the darkness, it actually has a profound impact on your experience and changes the meaning of winter darkness." The episode then draws on psychologists, chefs, and authors to offer five practical strategies for making fall and winter genuinely enjoyable — not just bearable.

Transition your space, clothes, and diet

Psychologist Carrie Liebowitz, author of How to Winter, suggests that we can reorient our attention away from what's unpleasant about cold weather by deliberately switching our surroundings and routines toward what we do enjoy. Bring out the flannel sheets and velvet curtains. Dig into your cold-weather wardrobe — the leather jacket, the lace-up boots, the leg warmers. And change what you eat: a warm breakfast instead of cold cereal, hot tea or coffee instead of iced. "All of these things reorient my attention from the negative things about the cold and the dark and the wet to the things that I enjoy when the temperature drops."

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  • 1 (00:14) **Host Intro: Embracing Cozy Season** - Host Marielle Segarra sets the scene with a personal story of lighting candles at 5 AM after a trip, framing the episode around intentionally celebrating the darkness of fall and winter.
  • 2 (01:35) **Takeaway 1: Transition Your Space, Clothes, and Diet** - Advice on physically adapting your environment and habits to match the colder weather, from wardrobe swaps to warming foods.
  • 3 (04:12) **Takeaway 2: Slow Down and Embrace Rest** - A psychological and philosophical argument for allowing yourself to be less productive in the darker months, with concrete suggestions for rest.
  • 4 (07:15) **[Mid-Roll Ad Break]**
  • 5 (08:29) **Takeaway 3: Bundle Up and Get Outside** - Countering the instinct to stay indoors by advocating for outdoor time, inspired by Norwegian principles of dressing for the weather.
  • 6 (10:34) **Takeaway 4: Create Moments to Celebrate and Gather** - Strategies for combating winter isolation by creating your own traditions and hosting communal, low-pressure gatherings.
  • 7 (13:29) **[Mid-Roll Ad Break]**

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Shorter days, less sunshine, rain and snow ... the colder months can be a drag. But they don't have to be! In this episode, we share ideas to help you embrace the seasonal changes, whether you're a fan of the cold or not. We'll cover cozy rituals, dressing for the outdoors, ways to celebrate and gather, and how to use this reflective time of year for contemplation.

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