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5 min read"You Can Take the Trash Out of the Trailer, But It Will Still Be Trash"
In Indianapolis, someone has been plastering flyers around downtown for months. Every few weeks, a new one appears with a different photo of the same man—her ex—along with quotes attributed to him: "Women who want me to open doors and pull out chairs are high maintenance. I only want a woman that's independent." Another: "I will love bomb you like crazy the first few weeks. Then get ready for the emotional roller coaster, ladies." A third: "You can take the trash out of the trailer, but it will still be trash." The flyers include his full name and phone number. Members of local "Are We Dating the Same Guy?" Facebook groups share sightings and cheer her on. "Savage and hilarious," one commenter wrote. "Good for you, girl."
Jared and Jordana are not cheering.
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:30) **Cold Open & Banter** - Jared and Jordana riff on Emily's dead phone, phone anxiety, and the "hot girl" energy of not caring.
- 2 (01:08) **Welcome & Jared's High School Award** - The hosts introduce the episode and Jordana explains the George A. Dennett Distinguished Career Award she received from Needham High School.
- 3 (03:00) **Phone Call with Dad** - Jordana calls her father to share the news, and his reaction is predictably underwhelmed and focused on money.
- 4 (07:58) **Commencement Speech Debate** - The conversation shifts to the value of college, commencement speeches, and the pressure of AI.
- 5 (13:30) **Family History & "Salesman Jews"** - Jared and Jordana discuss their lack of knowledge about their family histories, a common trait among men.
- 6 (18:25) **Listener Email: The Cheating Ex Flyer Campaign** - A listener describes a woman in Indianapolis who posts flyers of her cheating ex all over downtown, complete with his quotes and phone number.
- 7 (22:31) **The Problem with Public Shaming** - Jordana and Jared dissect why the flyer campaign is more sad than satisfying, and how it hurts the person doing it.
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Show Notes
Jared calls his parents with some BIG news about a very important award, and you won't believe their guesses! Then, Jordana and Jared get into listener questions, breaking down a woman posting flyers about her ex all over Indianapolis in the Are We Dating The Same Guy Facebook group, and a new website that only reconnects exes if they secretly choose each other. Would you try to reconnect with your ex on a dating app?
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