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5 min readDad, where’s my inheritance?
When the Today, Explained team asked listeners to call in with thoughts about getting their inheritance before their parents die, they stopped counting at 60 calls. Mike Kinz, 36, from Evanston, Illinois, summed up the tension: his 77-year-old father has set aside $250,000 for him, but refuses to hand it over until he dies. Meanwhile, Mike and his wife are stuck deciding between buying a house or having a child—because they can't afford both. "I would like to not have to wait for you to pass away and have this sad moment be the reason that I get this," Mike said, imagining the conversation with his dad. "I'd like for you to see the benefit of it."
The generational money gap
Charlotte Cowles, money columnist for New York Magazine's The Cut, wrote about millennials and Gen Z who wish their parents would give them money now instead of leaving it as an inheritance. Finding millennials willing to talk was "not hard at all," she said. Finding boomers was much harder—"people don't want to be seen as stingy with their children."
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:01) **The Boomer Wealth Gap & The Early Inheritance Question** - The episode opens by framing the massive $90 trillion held by baby boomers and the central tension: millennials and Gen Z wondering if they should get their inheritance before their parents die.
- 2 (07:26) **Charlotte Cowles Explains the Millennial Frustration** - The money columnist for New York Magazine's The Cut discusses her article on young people who wish their parents would give them money now.
- 3 (09:02) **The Investment Gap Between Generations** - A key friction point emerges: boomers often keep inheritance money in low-yield savings accounts, while millennials see this as wasting potential growth.
- 4 (10:51) **Death, Guilt, and the Fear of Spending Down Savings** - The emotional weight of inheritance is tied to confronting mortality and the scary transition from earning to spending wealth.
- 5 (11:50) **The "Self-Reliance" Counterargument** - A boomer parent's perspective is presented: withholding money to teach children the value of making it on their own.
- 6 (14:01) **Generational Universal Truths** - The host and Cowles agree that every generation thinks the next has it easier and feels more entitled, but data shows real market differences for millennials.
- 7 (19:41) **Bill Perkins: The "Die With Zero" Argument** - The author joins to argue that inheritance should be given well before death to maximize its impact on the recipient's life.
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Show Notes
When boomers die, they’ll leave trillions to their adult children. Some of those kids say they should get that money now.
This episode was produced by Danielle Hewitt, edited by Jenny Lawton, fact-checked by Gabriel Dunatov, engineered by Patrick Boyd and David Tatasciore, and hosted by Noel King.
A senior couple sold their house in Minnesota and moved to central Florida, where they will have more time for their convertible sports car. Photo by Bruce Bisping/Star Tribune via Getty Images.
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