The Right Financial Decision Starts With Understanding the Problem
September 7, 2026
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5 min readThe episode opens on a devastating call from Tawny in Bismarck, North Dakota, who recently discovered her husband of ten years has been cheating and hiding credit card debt. “My whole world imploded on me recently,” she says. She is 33 with two young boys, and the couple has no debt except the mortgage — or so she thought. The hosts’ immediate advice is not to make rash moves out of fear or anger. Tawny’s first step is to find a recommended divorce attorney, then a counselor for herself and guidance on how to talk to the children. Financially, George Campbell tells her to “forecast what the future might look like” by crafting a budget around her $85,000 income alone, as if she were on her own. Jade Warshaw adds a practical exercise: list all assets and debts, split them in half on paper, and run the net worth equation. “When there’s no knowledge, your brain just kind of makes things up and fills in the gaps,” she says. The core message: divorce turns a marriage into a business transaction, and the goal is to execute it as cleanly as possible without dragging the kids into the mess.
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:50) **Tawny's Imploded Marriage and Hidden Debt** - A caller discovers her husband's affair and secret credit card debt, and the hosts advise her on next steps.
- 2 (10:25) **Budgeting for a New Relationship** - A caller asks how to account for his new girlfriend in his budget without blowing through his financial goals.
- 3 (17:06) **Baby Step 4 Investing for Educators** - A caller on the verge of Baby Step 4 asks how to allocate his investments with a 403B and no employer match.
- 4 (21:13) **Investing Jargon Explained: 401k, Roth, and Match** - The hosts break down common investing terms in layman's terms for listeners feeling overwhelmed.
- 5 (26:27) **Should I Quit My Job to Start a Business?** - A self-employed caller with a new baby on the way and a high mortgage payment seeks advice on whether to go full-time with his carpentry business.
- 6 (32:50) **Stork Mode and a $60,000 Car** - A pregnant caller with $52k in debt and $40k in savings asks if she should get rid of her expensive new car.
- 7 (39:43) **Solo 401k Contributions vs. Paying Down the Mortgage** - A business owner on Baby Step 2 asks where her business's 25% retirement contribution fits into the baby steps.
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Show Notes
❓ Have a money question? Ask Ramsey is here to help.
George Kamel and Jade Warshaw answer your questions and discuss:
- My husband is cheating on me and hiding his credit card debt
- How do I budget for a high maintenance girlfriend?
- My car payment is $955 a month, should I sell the car?
- How do we navigate rising living expenses?
- My hospital bill went to collections but it was more than what I agreed on when I went to the hospital, what should I do?
- I have $164,000 of student loan debt, should I pursue public loan forgiveness?
- We have $100,000 in cash sitting in a safe, is this a good idea?
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