I Discovered My Boss Was Overpaying Me (They want $17k now)
April 23, 2026
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5 min read"I Discovered My Boss Was Overpaying Me (They want $17k now)"
A physician who recently returned from maternity leave discovered that her employer had been overpaying her by roughly $1,000 per month for a year and a half — a total of about $17,000. The error happened when she reduced her schedule from full-time to 95 percent effort, but her pay never changed. She brought the mistake to her employer's attention, and now they want the money back by the end of the fiscal year. She and her husband, who together earn about $420,000 annually, were two weeks away from paying off $80,000 in non-mortgage debt when this landed. She called in for advice on how to handle the upcoming meeting — and whether she should talk to a lawyer first.
The asymmetry of who made the mistake
The core of the advice hinges on a simple but easy-to-miss distinction: the employee did not steal, deceive, or even notice the overpayment. She brought the error to her employer's attention. The employer made the clerical mistake. As the host put it, "You didn't steal the money. You didn't deceive anyone. Quite the opposite. You're the one that brought it to their attention."
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:06) **Caller Explains the Overpayment Error** - A physician who returned from maternity leave with reduced hours discovers her employer overpaid her by $17,000 over 18 months, and they now want repayment by July or October.
- 2 (03:05) **Host’s Core Advice: Don’t Lead with Legal Threats** - The host argues the employer should waive the debt because they made the error, the caller brought it to light, and she is a top performer.
- 3 (04:30) **Script for the Meeting** - The host offers a direct but diplomatic approach: acknowledge her value, the error, and ask them to waive the repayment.
- 4 (05:20) **The Real Leverage: Retention and Morale** - The host explains why the employer should waive the debt for business reasons, not just fairness.
- 5 Standout Quotes
- 6 “If I had a highly compensated team member and we made a clerical error… I wouldn’t ask for it back—I’d be embarrassed we screwed up.”
- 7 “Don’t be stepping over dollars picking up nickels.”
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