Relationship Qs My Husband And I Have Never Asked Each Other—Until Now (PT. 2)

May 4, 2026

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When the Best Days Aren't the Ones You Expect

Eighteen years into a relationship, Liz Moody and her husband Zach sat down for part two of a conversation built around science-backed questions designed to deepen intimacy between partners. What emerged was less about dramatic revelations and more about the quiet, specific texture of a long partnership—the kind of knowing that accumulates in small observations rather than grand declarations.

The Best Day Wasn't the Wedding

When asked which day they would relive together, both immediately ruled out their wedding. "It was nowhere near the top of my list for best days in our relationship," Liz said, noting that engagement day also wouldn't crack their top ten. This observation came with a gentle critique of the cultural pressure to make weddings the pinnacle of a relationship.

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1 Relationship Qs My Husband And I Have Never Asked Each Other—Until Now (PT. 2)
2 (00:00) **Opening & Episode Setup** - Liz introduces part two of her and Zach answering science-backed relationship questions they've never asked each other in 18 years together.
3 (00:40) **Best Day Together (Not the Wedding)** - Zach and Liz reveal that their wedding day isn't close to their favorite day together, challenging the cultural pressure to make it "the best day of your life."
4 (03:56) **The Version Only You Get to See** - Each partner reveals the side of the other that doesn't come out in public.
5 (07:15) **Daily Habits You Don't Know About** - Zach and Liz reveal private daily rituals the other was only partially aware of.
6 (08:42) **How You've Rubbed Off on Me** - The couple reflects on how they've changed each other over 18 years.
7 (10:54) **Parenting Strengths & Weaknesses** - They predict each other's parenting abilities if they have children.

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Show Notes

My husband Zack and I are answering relationship questions that we have never asked each other in our 18 years of being together. These questions are all based on real research on what actually makes couples closer, so bring these questions to your partner (or friend)—they’re guaranteed to spark great conversations.

Check out part one of this episode for more juicy questions.

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