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5 min readMen 75 and older have the highest suicide rate of any demographic group in the United States — nearly three times the national age-adjusted average, and roughly eight times the rate for women in the same age bracket. That statistic, which Wes Moss shares on this episode of the Clark Howard Show, is the kind of number that reframes how you think about retirement. It is not, Moss argues, a wealth problem. It is a purpose and connection problem. And it drives much of his work on what actually makes a retiree happy.
The hard statistics behind a "happy retirement"
Moss lays out a set of troubling trends that most financial planning conversations ignore. Overdose deaths among adults 65 and older have more than tripled in the past two decades — the fastest growth of any age group. About one in four community-dwelling Americans (meaning they live in their own homes, not in retirement communities) aged 65 and older are socially isolated, due to loss of a spouse, friends, siblings, the end of daily workplace relationships, adult children moving away, chronic illness, or reduced mobility.
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What you'll learn
- 1 (01:10) **Wes Moss Introduces the Core Challenge: The Unhappy Retirement** - Krista Devias sets up two main topics: the reality that retirement is not always blissful, and a new framework for deciding between a lump sum and a monthly payout.
- 2 (04:21) **Shocking Statistics on Retirement's Dark Side** - Wes reveals alarming data on suicide, overdoses, and social isolation among older Americans, arguing these are not wealth problems but purpose and connection problems.
- 3 (07:50) **The Root Causes: A Friendship Recession and a Purpose Vacuum** - Wes connects the retirement struggle to two major non-financial trends: a collapse in friendship and the loss of purpose that work provides.
- 4 (09:50) **A Challenge to Listeners: Talk to Your Families** - Wes urges people to surface these difficult topics with their loved ones to prevent bad outcomes.
- 5 (10:31) **Question: Paralyzed by the "No Mortgage" Rule (Alex, Georgia)** - A 64-year-old listener with a paid-off but too-small home and $2M in savings is paralyzed by the idea of taking on a new mortgage in retirement.
- 6 (14:04) **Wes's Solution: Don't Be Paralyzed by a Rule of Thumb** - Wes advises Alex to buy the bigger house now while he still has wage income, as the cost is very manageable relative to his wealth.
- 7 (15:28) **Question: Concentrated Stock for a 90-Year-Old Grandfather (Simon, Florida)** - Simon is worried about his grandfather's large, undiversified stock position and asks about selling, tax implications, and the step-up in basis.
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Show Notes
The Dark Side of Retirement (and How To Avoid It) & Lump Sum vs. Monthly Pension Decision Tree
Retirement is often touted as the ultimate goal, but Wes reveals why reaching the finish line can bring unexpected challenges. Wes exposes the sobering statistics behind aging in America, emphasizing why true retirement success requires building a "portfolio of purpose" alongside financial security.
Also, Wes breaks down his brand-new decision tree to help you settle the age-old debate of choosing a lump sum versus monthly pension payouts, introducing his straightforward 6% Rule and four key questions to protect your wealth, fight inflation, and secure a blissful retirement.
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All this and more on the September 22, 2026, Ask an Advisor episode of the Clark Howard podcast. Submit your questions: WesMoss.com/ask
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