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Who counts as a significant other?

December 26, 2025

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🎙️ The Speakers & Context

  • The Format: Radio compilation of TED Talks in a reflective, idea-spreading format unpacking non-romantic bonds.
  • The Key Players:
    • Raina Cohen (Journalist/Author): Documented "frontier" platonic relationships rivaling romance, drawing from personal "soulmate" friendship and historical precedents.
    • Stephanie Yates Anya Buile (Marriage Therapist): Guides couples through norm-defying experiments, saving relationships by decoupling logistics from love.
    • Bella DePaulo (Social Psychologist): Leads research on "single at heart" individuals, debunking marriage myths with data on singles' superior social networks.
    • Elias Weiss Friedman (Doggist/Photographer): Captured 50K+ dog-human bonds, highlighting pets as non-judgmental companions amid societal stress.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (02:19) **Episode Intro: Significant Others**
  • 2 (02:32) **🎙️ Raina Cohen: Intense Platonic Friendships**
  • 3 (06:45) **Historical Context of Epic Friendships**
  • 4 (07:33) **Raina Cohen TED Talk Excerpt: Frontiers of Friendship**
  • 5 (13:56) **Raina's Vision: Permission to Share Lives Broadly**
  • 6 (17:00) **Societal Expectations of Romance**
  • 7 (17:11) **🎙️ Stephanie Yates Anya Buile: Rejecting Relationship Norms**

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Show Notes

Finding "the one" can seem like life's ultimate goal—but should it be? This hour, TED speakers expand the definition of life partnership, whether it's with a friend, a spouse, a pet, or no one at all.

Guest include journalist Rhaina Cohen, marriage and family therapist Stephanie Yates-Anyabwile, social psychologist Bella DePaulo and photographer Elias Weiss Friedman of "The Dogist."

Original broadcast date: February 7, 2025

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