1391 - Hayley Started Having MFM Thrreesomes and Swinging Solo in her Twenties
March 9, 2026
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5 min readWhen a Solo Explorer Finds a Partner Who Pushes Her to Talk
Hayley, 26, got out of a long-term relationship last April and immediately joined a kink website. She had always known she was interested in impact play, degradation, and group sex, but her previous boyfriends weren't into it. So she decided to explore solo. Within months she was having threesomes with two men, discovering she loved being spit-roasted, and working toward a gangbang. Then she met a guy in his mid-30s who had been in the lifestyle for five years. What started as a threesome hookup turned into something more emotionally charged, and the episode traces how she navigates jealousy, communication, and a relationship she didn't plan for.
The Solo Start and the Threesome Pipeline
After her last long-term relationship ended, Hayley joined FetLife and began posting photos and videos. She wasn't sure she would actually meet anyone in person, but she did. Her first goal was a threesome. She found a partner who helped her search, but when he disappeared, she took over. She messaged a bunch of guys from the site, found two close to her age, and made it happen within 24 hours. "It was amazing," she says. "I found out I love being spit roasted." That first threesome was with two men, and she recorded it on her phone—then broke the phone a month later. "My first threesome gone."
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What you'll learn
- 1 (05:40) **Introduction to Haley** - Host introduces Haley, a 26-year-old who entered the lifestyle solo after a breakup, and outlines her experiences with threesomes, swapping, kink, and navigating jealousy with a new partner.
- 2 (07:14) **Why She Started Solo** - Haley explains she got into the lifestyle after a long-term relationship, wanting to explore kink and group sex on her own.
- 3 (09:56) **Kink Interests Beyond Group Sex** - Haley details her specific kink interests: impact play (spanking, belts) and degradation, which she had wanted to explore but couldn't with previous partners.
- 4 (11:14) **First Threesome Experience** - Haley describes how she organized her first threesome with two men within 24 hours, and what it was like.
- 5 (13:42) **Subsequent Threesomes and Kink Exploration** - Haley recounts a rougher threesome that didn't go as planned, and a better one with her new partner and his friend that included impact play.
- 6 (15:16) **Gangbang Fantasy and Empowerment** - Haley explains her long-standing fantasy of a gangbang, which she is actively trying to set up with her partner's help.
- 7 (20:49) **First Threesome with a Woman** - Haley describes her recent first threesome with a man and a woman, met at a swingers club.
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Show Notes
Hayley started swinging solo in her twenties and she called in to talk all about it. Tune in to hear all the details including how and when she decided to get into the lifestyle solo, where she met the two guys for her first MFM threesome and exactly what went down, the second mfm threesome she had and the impact play that went down, how and why she’s trying to see up a gangbang, the first mff threesome she had and exactly what went down, the guy she is now dating from one of her threesomes and how they are navigating the swinger world together, the kinky things they’ve tried together, the first time they went to a swinger club together, the jealousy that came up for her and how they navigated through it, the full swap they had and exactly what went down, the second couple they swapped with and what went down and how and why she also got jealous, how she likes to be degrade as well as how she enjoys people watching her plus a whole lot more.
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