Anne Hjernøe

February 6, 2025

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Anne Hjernøe, a Danish TV host known for travel programs like Anne and Anders, lost her husband Jens Folmer Jebsen to cancer after 30 years together. In this conversation, she explains why she has not spoken publicly about his death until now: she did not want it to become entertainment. She agreed to this interview only because she trusted it would be a respectful space, not a spectacle. “I don’t want him to get forgotten,” she says, describing the double-edged sword of speaking about loss.

The diagnosis and the long wait

Folmer began showing symptoms in 2023—a subtle drag in his left foot during a walk. Over eight months, he deteriorated while doctors repeatedly assured the family it was not cancer. “They said many times, it’s definitely not cancer. We’re absolutely sure it’s not cancer,” Hjernøe recalls. The diagnosis came by phone while she was driving home from Copenhagen. She describes the feeling as a truck lying across the motorway. The family gathered the next day at the hospital, where they learned the tumor was a glioblastoma—incurable.

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What you'll learn

1 (00:05) **Introduction and Guest Welcome** - Sørine introduces the podcast theme of life force and welcomes Anne Hjernøe, who lost her husband to cancer a few months prior.
2 (03:21) **Proposition: No Belief in Reunion** - Sørine reads a proposition that Anne negotiates daily with a belief in reunion; Anne rejects it entirely.
3 (04:46) **Upbringing and Early Love** - Anne describes her childhood in a closed-off, humorous, and food-centered family.
4 (08:42) **Meeting and Marrying Folmer** - Anne recounts meeting her husband at age 24 when he was 36 and married with two children.
5 (18:13) **The Onset of Illness** - Folmer began showing symptoms in 2023, starting with a dragging foot while walking.
6 (21:01) **The Diagnosis and Its Aftermath** - Anne received the cancer diagnosis in a phone call while driving and describes it as a "truck" hitting her.
7 (25:47) **Living with Terminal Illness** - Anne explains how they tried to live normally, with health staff telling her never to be his nurse.

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Show Notes

Tv-vært Anne Hjernøe mistede sin mand gennem 30 år, Jens Folmer Jepsen, i oktober. For første gang taler hun om sin oplevelse i forbindelse med mandens sygdomsforløb. Hun fortæller om, hvordan de sammen fik den idé at invitere til gravøl, mens han stadig var i live. De inviterede deres 50 nærmeste til farvelfest for Folmer – en barsk og smuk dag fuld af livskraft. Anne Hjernøe kommer også ind på, hvordan tiden efter sin mands død har været, og om hun tror på, hvorvidt de to skal mødes igen en dag.