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Love in the time of Palantir

September 2, 2026

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A few weeks ago, an ad appeared on Instagram for a singles event in New York called “Singles Dating Matching using Palantir Data.” The pitch was that attendees could find love using the same technology that supposedly helped track down Osama bin Laden. Palantir is a data analytics company best known for contracts with ICE and the Department of Defense, not for romance. The event was clearly at least partly a joke, but it drew a curious crowd. “We both work in tech and we're critical of tech but also wanted to see how we might be optimized for love,” one attendee said. Another, Jeannie Chen, was worried about her secrets being exposed but had a backup plan: her name is common, and she has a doppelgänger in New York with the same job. “I hope they find that one,” she said.

The organizer, James Steinberg, is a cybersecurity professional who hosts weird tech events as dark jokes. He spent 50 hours before the night using “Palantir-inspired” techniques—data enrichment, facial recognition, reverse phone lookups, bounty hunter databases, and leaked dark web data—to compile dating profiles on the roughly 60 attendees. He is not affiliated with Palantir and does not use their software. In fact, Palantir sent him a cease-and-desist email. “I could lose everything,” he told the crowd, “but it would all be worth it if at least two people here have a spark.”

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (00:24) **The Palantir Dating Ad** - An Instagram ad promotes a singles event using "Palantir Data" to find love, sparking curiosity about the surveillance company.
  • 2 (01:36) **Attendees' Privacy Concerns** - Eventgoers give their names and phone numbers, unsure what data can be pulled from just that information.
  • 3 (02:02) **The Mystery of Palantir** - The episode frames Palantir as a mysterious, monolithic company in the public imagination.
  • 4 (03:53) **Introducing the Investigation** - The host sets up the show's mission: to explore what Palantir does, what data it has, and what it does with it.
  • 5 (05:23) **Organizer James Steinberg's Setup** - James explains his joke and the difficulty of finding a venue.
  • 6 (06:45) **What Palantir Actually Does** - Journalist Mike Steinberger explains that Palantir does not own or sell data, but provides software to analyze it.
  • 7 (10:20) **Could Palantir Make Love Matches?** - The host asks if Palantir's flexible software could be used for dating.

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Show Notes

To a lot of people, Palantir is a mystery — what does the company know, what data do they have, and (if they have it) what do they do with it all? We dig into that mystery and take you to a singles event to see if Big Data is good for Big Dating.

That event, deep in the heart of Manhattan, is called: “Singles Dating Matching Using Palantir Data.” The evening promised: “Data analysis!” and “Pattern matching!” We decided that we needed to know more. 

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This episode was hosted by Amanda Aronczyk, produced by Sam Yellowhorse Kesler and edited by Jess Jiang. It was engineered by Cena Loffredo and Maggie Luthar and fact-checked by Sierra Juarez. Alex Goldmark is Planet Money’s executive producer.

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