How Can I Overcome My Interview Nerves?

In this episode of Oversharing, hosts Jordana Ibrahim and Dr. Naomi Bernstein respond to listener questions about parenting teens, ending friendships, wedding guest lists, job interviews, neighborhood parking, and family sensitivities. Their discussion centers on practical ways to handle resentment, anxiety, and unclear expectations by examining both sides of a situation and adjusting one's own approach.

Listening First in Family Interactions

The hosts describe the value of creating a safe space for teenagers rather than jumping to advice or rules. Jordana shares her efforts to stay involved in her daughter's social activities, such as organizing a non-alcoholic version of a party game, while resisting the urge to solve problems for her children. They note that teens often respond better when parents ask open questions and reflect feelings instead of expressing strong personal reactions. This approach reduces power struggles and encourages children to share more over time. The same principle extends to younger kids during tantrums: staying calm prevents the adult's emotions from escalating the moment.

Weighing Ownership and Communication in Shared Housing