Hostility, Confusion, and Ideological Pressure: Outreach in a Changing World, with Rabbi Mark Wildes (269)
November 17, 2025
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5 min readHostility, Confusion, and Ideological Pressure: Outreach in a Changing World
Rabbi Mark Wildes, founder of Manhattan Jewish Experience (MJE), has spent decades helping unaffiliated Jewish professionals in their 20s and 30s build relationships with Torah, Shabbat, and Jewish community. But the ground has shifted. Recorded days after Eric Adams defeated Zoran Mamdani in New York's mayoral election, this conversation confronts what outreach looks like when the political and ideological environment becomes actively hostile to Jews—and how to reach people who are skeptical, left-leaning, or openly anti-Zionist without abandoning core commitments.
The Mamdani Problem and What It Changes
Wildes is careful not to overstate immediate danger. "Nothing's happened just yet," he says of Mamdani's loss. But his deeper concern is subtler and more structural: that a successful Mamdani candidacy—even a losing one—mainstreams anti-Israel sentiment. "If he's successful as a mayor, not just in protecting Jews, but just successful in general," Wildes says, echoing Alan Dershowitz, "that gives him a platform to promote his anti-Israel agenda." The danger is not failure but success: a charismatic leader who gains public confidence can then leverage it for ideological ends.
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What you'll learn
- 1 Orthodox Conundrum: Hostility, Confusion, and Ideological Pressure – Outreach in a Changing World
- 2 Timestamped Outline
- 3 (06:24) **What Has Changed for Jews in New York After the Mamdani Election** - Rabbi Wildes opens with his concerns about safety and police protection for Jewish institutions
- 4 (10:49) **How Young Unaffiliated Jews Are Reacting to the Shift** - Rabbi Wildes describes the split among the 20s and 30s Jews he works with
- 5 (13:07) **Should Jewish Leaders Be Calling for Aliyah Now?** - Rabbi Wildes responds to the host's article suggesting it's time to consider moving to Israel
- 6 (19:12) **How to Speak to Anti-Zionist and Center-Left Jews** - Rabbi Wildes explains the reality of outreach in a polarized environment
- 7 (21:54) **Must Orthodox Outreach Include a Zionist Element?** - Rabbi Wildes makes the case that you can't do proper Kiruv without Israel
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Show Notes
Zohran Mamdani - a politician who openly rejects Israel's right to exist as a Jewish state, yet insists that this has nothing to do with antisemitism - is now the mayor-elect of New York City. He points to a small number of Jewish supporters as evidence, while promoting a worldview in which Israel is framed as a genocidal, apartheid project.
New York is home to the largest Jewish community in the diaspora. When that city elects a proudly anti-Zionist mayor, it sends a message far beyond one municipality. It raises hard questions: What does it mean for Jewish security, for public discourse about Israel, and for the way younger Jews understand the connection between antisemitism and anti-Zionism? Does this moment push more Jews to consider aliyah, or does it demand that they stay and push back? And what does kiruv look like in an atmosphere saturated with hostility, confusion, and ideological pressure?
My guest confronts these questions every day. Rabbi Mark Wildes is the founder of Manhattan Jewish Experience, which has spent decades helping unaffiliated Jews in their 20s and 30s build a deeper relationship with Torah, Shabbat, and the Jewish people. In our conversation, we talk about what he fears will tangibly change on the ground as a result of Mamdani's election, why the supposed split between anti-Zionism and antisemitism is so dangerous, and how Rabbi Wildes speaks to students who are center-left, skeptical about Israel, or openly anti-Zionist.
We also discuss his new book, The Jewish Experience: why he chose to organize basic Judaism around the concepts of God, Torah, prayer, Shabbat, chesed, and tikkun olam; why Shabbat and Jewish wisdom are the best first steps for Jews who feel worn down by the headlines; and how to reclaim tikkun olam from its political distortions without abandoning the real Torah value behind it.
We also look at "spreadsheet kiruv," which emphasizes metrics in determining how successful an outreach program is; how outreach can avoid treating people as projects, and why one small act — a Shabbat meal, a class, even a moment of being pulled into a dance circle — can change a Jewish life in ways none of us may even recognize.
This is a wide-ranging conversation that touches on so many aspects of kiruv, including ma'amarei Chazal, politics, Pet Sounds, and Sgt. Pepper.
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