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OBITCH J'Andrea

September 3, 2026

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"This Is My Mom. Throw Her Back In."

A grieving daughter placed her mother's ashes in a message-in-a-bottle and sent it out to sea. A stranger found it, read the note, and put it back in the water. "I am hoping she goes further this time and finally gets a chance to see the world," the finder wrote in a message that went viral. It's a rare wholesome moment in an episode that otherwise wrestles with grief, loss, and the question of who gets to claim the truth about the dead.

The Grief That Won't Fit in a Box

The episode opens with a Reddit story that becomes a kind of case study in how grief can look irrational from the outside. A 28-year-old man tells his girlfriend he can't see a future with her because she's been "hysterical" for weeks after her 20-year-old car was declared totaled. She cries every night. She says the car "is family to me." She won't let it go to the scrapyard. The boyfriend frames it as a test: if a broken car triggers this reaction, how would she handle real loss?

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What you'll learn

  • 1 OBITCHUARY: Psychics & Crime Solving
  • 2 (00:45) **Episode Kickoff & Concert Etiquette Rant** - Spencer and Madison catch up before discussing the week's topics
  • 3 (08:44) **Wholesome Interlude: Message in a Bottle** - A grieving daughter's creative tribute goes viral
  • 4 (10:40) **Comfort TikTok & Banter** - Spencer introduces a heartwarming TikTok creator and the hosts share personal quirks
  • 5 (16:25) **Reddit AITA Segment** - Two "Am I the Asshole" scenarios spark discussion
  • 6 (23:04) **Side Bitch: Fortune Teller Suicide** - A 1913 newspaper clipping about a psychic's deadly prediction
  • 7 (24:24) **Psychics & Crime Investigations Introduction** - Setting up the episode's main topic

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Show Notes

 

TGIT GEOFFS! This week the death divas are back to talk about all things PYSCHIC! We’ve got investigations, we’ve got predictions, we’ve got obituaries that gave us nightmare fuel and one for a man with all the attitude….what more could you ask for you greedy lil Geoff? OH Dumb.ass.criminalssss? SURE WHY NOT!

 

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Sources:

https://www.newspapers.com/image/1185552787/?search-id=83c65f21-0fb7-4637-af9d-3f0c2a343223&search-rank=9

https://uk.news.yahoo.com/maxine-carrs-cosmetic-surgery-life-145548954.html

https://www.quora.com/Did-a-psychic-detective-help-solve-the-murder-of-Holly-Wells-and-Jessica-Chapman

https://www.rd.com/list/mysteries-solved-by-psychics/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Soham_murders

https://newspaperarchive.com/crime-clipping-jun-02-1983-162641/

https://www.newspapers.com/image/343470759/?fcfToken=eyJhbGciOiJFUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJmcmVlLXZpZXctaWQiOjM0MzQ3MDc1OSwiaWF0IjoxNzg3MTU0MjI1LCJleHAiOjE3ODc

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