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5 min readPaige and her husband have a year’s worth of expenses saved, no credit card debt, and a solid plan for her to stay home with their first child due in October. Yet she is anxious about dropping to one income—and the biggest source of that anxiety is not the lost paycheck itself. It is the fact that her husband’s health insurance will cost more than triple what she currently pays through her own employer. That single line item, plus the unknowns of a new baby and a planned car purchase, is what makes the transition feel precarious rather than planned.
The conversation with NerdWallet hosts Sean Pyles and Elizabeth Ayoola walks Paige through a practical, psychology-informed game plan for the shift. The core insight is that most of her anxiety comes from not having modeled the new numbers yet. Once she does, the uncertainty shrinks.
The real budget exercise: model a month before the baby arrives
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:31) **Episode Intro & Hosts** - Sean and Elizabeth introduce the episode about going down to one income.
- 2 (16:15) **Paige's Situation & Core Anxiety** - Paige explains her financial setup and the source of her stress.
- 3 (19:24) **Actionable Advice: Model Your New Budget** - Sean recommends a specific exercise to reduce financial anxiety.
- 4 (20:29) **Cutting Expenses: Subscriptions & Lifestyle Creep** - Paige identifies her biggest spending leaks.
- 5 (22:08) **Retirement Strategy on One Income** - Paige worries about pausing her retirement contributions.
- 6 (23:30) **Baby Expenses & Self-Care Fund** - Practical tips for saving on baby items and a psychological tip for the new mom.
- 7 (24:49) **Elizabeth's Personal Story: Panic Mode** - Elizabeth shares her own experience of becoming a parent with very little money.
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Show Notes
Learn how to budget for dropping to one income with a baby on the way. Plus: what's really happening to the 50+ workforce?
What's driving the labor force participation rate to a 50-year low — and what does it mean for the more than one million Americans aged 54 and up who are still looking for work? Sean Pyles, CFP®, and Elizabeth Ayoola are joined by news colleague Rick VanderKnyff and Gary A. Officer, president and CEO of CWI Works, to dig into the real challenges facing older workers today. They cover why age discrimination costs the U.S. economy an estimated $850 billion a year, how AI anxiety is hitting older workers in physically demanding jobs hardest, why the barriers to re-entering the workforce after retirement are steeper than most people realize, and what a 27% long-term unemployment rate among older Americans says about who the job market is actually built for.
When you're expecting your first baby and planning to leave the workforce, how do you know your finances are truly ready for the shift to one income? Sean and Elizabeth sit down with listener Paige, who has over a year of expenses saved and around $100,000 in retirement funds but is still anxious about the jump. They tackle the specific decisions she's wrestling with: what to do about retirement contributions when one partner stops working, which expenses could be safely cut before baby arrives, whether her current life insurance coverage is adequate for a growing family, and how to build a realistic picture of what her budget could look like once the paycheck disappears this fall.
Use NerdWallet's 50/30/20 budget calculator to see how your needs, wants, and savings stack up: https://www.nerdwallet.com/finance/learn/nerdwallet-budget-calculator
Estimate how much life insurance your family could need with NerdWallet's calculator: https://www.nerdwallet.com/insurance/life/learn/how-much-life-insurance-do-i-need
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