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The Saboteur: There's a Voice in Your Head That's Been Lying to You for Years | With Shirzad Chamine

September 14, 2026

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In the opening moments of this episode, host Kwame Christian demonstrates a simple physical trick: pressing two fingertips together with enough attention to feel the ridges on each. He claims this ten-second exercise has changed millions of lives. The guest, Shirzad Chamine, then explains why. Chamine is the former CEO of the largest training organization in the world, and his saboteur assessment has been taken by more than two million people. He is returning to share his message now because he believes AI-driven disruption will trigger an epidemic of fear, stress, and identity crisis. The human mind, he argues, is not wired for exponential change, and without mental fitness, people will default to fear-based reactions that amplify tribalism and hate.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (00:05) **Opening Fingertip Exercise** - Shirzad Chamine demonstrates a simple 10-second physical exercise that quiets the "saboteur" region of the brain and activates the "sage" region.
  • 2 (01:20) **Why Shirzad Is Returning to the Public Stage Now** - The host explains why a legend in the field is coming back, and Shirzad gives the urgent reason.
  • 3 (04:06) **Shirzad's Origin Story: From Depression to Discovery** - Shirzad shares his personal background of growing up in poverty with a terrifying father, leading to clinical depression and a "victim" saboteur.
  • 4 (06:47) **The Pivotal Palace Coup** - Shirzad recounts the moment he was demoted from his own company, which became the catalyst for his entire framework.
  • 5 (09:33) **The Root Cause Research: 10 Saboteurs & 5 Sage Powers** - Shirzad explains the factor analysis research with over half a million participants that led to the discovery of only ten negative root factors.
  • 6 (11:26) **The Urgency of AI and the Fear vs. Love Framework** - Shirzad doubles down on why this work is now critical, reframing the core battle as one between fear-based saboteurs and love-based sage.
  • 7 (18:28) **The Neuroscience: Building Sage Muscle, Atrophying Saboteur Muscle** - The host asks for the brain science behind the framework, focusing on neuroplasticity and the ability to intentionally weaken negative pathways.

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Show Notes

You've been listening to the wrong voice in your head for years — and it's cost you more than you realize.

Shirzad Chamine spent the first 30 years of his life in clinical depression — despite building a venture-backed company, attracting Silicon Valley's top investors, and landing Hewlett-Packard as his first customer. Then, at the height of his success, his own leadership team staged a coup and demoted him as CEO of the company he founded.

That devastating moment forced him to ask a question most high achievers never stop to consider: if I'm this successful and this miserable, who am I really — and what's actually running my mind?


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