How to Control Your Hormones Before They Control You — with David JP Phillips
August 31, 2026
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5 min read"Come get me." That is the mantra David JP Phillips uses before stepping on stage or into a negotiation. He pairs it with a specific walk, a warrior-like breathing pattern, high-bass music, a primal scream, and a chest-pounding anchoring gesture. Stacked together, these six moves take about two minutes and produce what he calls an instantaneous testosterone boost—one that makes people, including the women who try it in his workshops, feel "freaking invincible." Phillips, a public speaking coach with three TEDx talks and a book called High on Life now in 35 languages, argues that most people treat their emotions as fixed. They wake up with a mood and stay in it. But he believes the six neurosubstances that govern our mental state—dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol—can be deliberately adjusted. The result is not just better feelings but better decisions, better negotiations, and better interactions with other people.
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What you'll learn
- 1 How to Control Your Hormones Before They Control You — with David JP Phillips
- 2 Timestamped Outline
- 3 (03:34) **Introducing the Six Neurosubstances Framework** - David explains his book covers dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphins, testosterone, and cortisol, with 10 tools per substance
- 4 (05:37) **Testosterone: Gender Dynamics and Baseline Differences** - David addresses whether testosterone elevation works for women
- 5 (06:39) **The Long Game: Stacking Victories Before a Negotiation** - How to build testosterone over a week leading up to an important meeting
- 6 (08:33) **The Six-Step Testosterone Stacking Protocol** - A two-minute power move combining six scientifically proven methods
- 7 (14:26) **Testosterone as an Amplifier, Not Just Aggression** - Testosterone amplifies your existing social skills rather than making you purely aggressive
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Show Notes
David JP Phillips reveals how to hack your internal chemistry—on demand—to show up with confidence, presence, and power when it matters most. Drawing from his best-selling book High on Life, David breaks down the six key neurochemicals that control your behavior (dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, endorphin, testosterone, and cortisol), and shows you how to intentionally trigger the right “emotional cocktail” before a high-stakes conversation.
You’ll learn how to:
• Boost testosterone without acting aggressive
• Use oxytocin to build trust—without going soft
• Prime your brain for creativity, calm, and clarity
• Change your state and even influence theirs
If you've ever felt anxious, frozen, or off your game in tough conversations, this episode is your playbook for taking back control—physiologically and psychologically.
Stick around for the end—we even talk about how to prep the other person’s mindset without them noticing.
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