The Addiction Story Behind a Beloved 'Parks and Rec' Writer with Stephanie Wittels Wachs

October 6, 2026

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The Disease That Looks Like a Choice

Stephanie Whittles Wax's brother Harris was a comedy writer on Parks and Rec, the funniest person Sarah Silverman had ever met, and someone who attended over 200 Phish concerts. He also spent $4,000 a month on OxyContin, started shooting heroin after learning how from a YouTube video, and died at 30 — the day before his sister's birthday. In her book The Last Day: How to Stop Losing Our Loved Ones to the Opioid Crisis, Wax argues that the single most dangerous thing about addiction is how badly most people misunderstand it.

The Two-Year Collapse

Wax's brother called her three days before her wedding in March 2013 to say he was addicted to OxyContin. He went to his first rehab in February 2014, one month after her daughter was born. He was dead by February 2015. The entire arc from disclosure to death took under two years.

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What you'll learn

1 (01:03) **Introducing Stephanie Wittels Wachs** - Carl welcomes the author of *The Last Day* and CEO of Lemonata Media, framing the conversation around understanding addiction and communicating with loved ones.
2 (05:04) **The Backstory: Harris Wittels** - Stephanie introduces her brother, a Parks and Rec writer and comedian, and reveals when his opioid addiction first surfaced.
3 (12:57) **The Rapid Timeline of Harris’s Addiction** - Stephanie maps the compressed two-year arc from his first admission to his death, highlighting how a high-functioning addict can hide the crisis.
4 (16:53) **The Misunderstanding of Rehab and Relapse** - Stephanie describes the naive belief that a 30-day rehab would “cure” Harris, and the shock of realizing his condition was worsening.
5 (19:10) **The Family’s Breaking Point** - The shift from pills to heroin changed everything for Stephanie’s parents, especially her father, a doctor.
6 (21:06) **The Moment of Realization: Addiction as Illness** - Stephanie describes the first time she saw Harris not as an asshole but as a sick person needing medical intervention.
7 (24:16) **Staying Connected vs. Cutting Off** - The harder choice, Stephanie argues, is to stay connected to a loved one in addiction, even when they are lying and stealing.

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Show Notes

Harris Wittels was one of the funniest writers in comedy, a Parks and Recreation writer and producer and friend to Sarah Silverman, gone from an opioid overdose in 2015 at just 30 years old. His sister, Stephanie Wittels Wachs, spent years not understanding what was actually happening to him, and turned that grief into a mission to make sure other families wouldn't have to learn it the hard way.
She sits down with Carl for a conversation that feels like two siblings comparing notes on a grief they never asked for. They talk honestly about opioid addiction as a disease, how families fall apart trying to respond to it, and the real, practical harm reduction tools, including Narcan, that are actually saving lives right now.
Stephanie is the CEO of Lemonada Media and author of "The Last Day: How to Stop Losing Our Loved Ones to the Opioid Crisis," written for anyone who has ever loved someone in active addiction, or lost someone to it.
Resources from this episode:
Naloxone (Narcan)
Safe Spot overdose detection hotline

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