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5 min readComedian Ms. Pat walked into Hollywood with the same skills she used to sell crack on the streets of West Atlanta. She didn't know what a table read was, didn't know script language, and had never acted. So she went to YouTube, faked table reads with her co-creator until she got comfortable, and then killed it in front of the network. "Throwing me into Hollywood was no different than throwing me on the block saying sell this crack," she says. "I had to sell it. I had to make it. I had to act in it and I had to convince you that it was the best thing out there. So I already had those skills. All I needed was a different platform."
The American dream she actually wanted
Ms. Pat's new memoir, Miss American Dream, picks up where her first book left off. The title is deliberately ironic. As a little Black girl in Atlanta watching Leave It to Beaver, she absorbed the white American dream: big house, white picket fence, car, family. She chased it, got it, and found it hollow. "I realized I already had my American dream," she says. "I just hadn't tapped into it. And for me, my American dream is my family. Walking into that house, hearing my grandkids' voice and my husband's voice, and what I have you can't buy. And it's called happiness."
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:00) **Opening: Street Skills as Hollywood Prep** - Ms. Pat explains that the same survival instincts she learned on the street are the skills she still uses to navigate Hollywood and her career.
- 2 (00:42) **Introduction: The "Miss American Dream" Thesis** - Host Mick introduces Ms. Pat as the embodiment of the American dream and thanks her for her unwavering authenticity in a fake world.
- 3 (02:04) **Defining "The Because": Laughter as Survival** - Ms. Pat reveals her core purpose: making people laugh so they know they can survive anything and eventually smile about their ordeals.
- 4 (03:13) **Discovering the Gift of Bluntness** - Ms. Pat explains she didn't see her humor as a gift, but as being blunt and saying what others were scared to say, only later realizing it could make people laugh at dark things.
- 5 (05:07) **The New Book: "Miss American Dream"** - Ms. Pat details the origin of her new memoir, which is about the hard work of achieving the traditional American dream only to find it's a myth, and that real happiness isn't for sale.
- 6 (06:52) **Defining Happiness: Authentic Patricia** - Ms. Pat defines happiness as the ability to take off her wigs and persona and walk into her house as just Patricia, where she is not judged and is simply loved by her family.
- 7 (08:46) **The Unplanned Hollywood Journey** - Ms. Pat reveals she never envisioned a Hollywood career or a six-season sitcom; she just wanted to be a comedian and stop her husband from pushing her.
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Show Notes
What happens when you get the house, the car and the things you thought would make you happy, then realize your real dream was already at home?
Ms. Pat joins Mick Hunt for a funny, candid conversation about family, authenticity and defining success for yourself. Discussing her memoir, Ms. American Dream, she explains why happiness has no price tag, how she prepared for Hollywood when she did not know the language, and why she thinks of fame as a job rather than an identity.
They also explore the money lessons she wants younger generations to learn, the podcast appearances that helped open doors, and the legacy she hopes to leave: keep going and never let someone else tell you who you are.
Explicit language. Discussion includes personal experiences with debt and credit, not individualized financial advice.
Ms. Pat's purpose is bigger than getting a laugh. She wants people to know that their hardest experiences do not have to hold them down forever.
In this episode:
The Because: laughter, survival and moving forward after difficult experiences.
The Unplugged Truth: why material success did not define her American dream.
What home, family and being Patricia mean to her.
Preparing for a table read through practice instead of pretending she already knew everything.
Why treating people well matters more to her than acting famous.
Hot Takes: the credit, interest-rate and saving lessons she shares with family and friends.
The Room: trusting her instincts about podcasts before Hollywood called.
The Unplugged Five: food, Atlanta, comedy and the legacy of never giving up.
Connect & Discover Ms Pat:
Instagram: @comediannemspat
Facebook: @mspatcomedy
TikTok: @comediannemspat
YouTube: @MsPat
X: @MsPat
Website: mspatcomedy.com
Book: Ms. American Dream: A Memoir of Making It No Matter What
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