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Re-Air: Alanis Morissette: Self-Care is No Longer a Luxury

February 27, 2026

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Alanis Morissette told Mayim Bialik and Jonathan Cohen that self-care stopped being a luxury for her and became a non-negotiable responsibility. She arrived at this point through what she calls "edge-dwelling conversations" with teachers and mentors, where it became clear that the old model—self-care as a treat every six months—was no longer viable. The conversation ranges across meditation, anger, disordered eating, and the nature of deep rest, with Morissette offering a nuanced view of each: none of these practices are one-size-fits-all, and the conditions under which they work depend heavily on a person's history, sensitivity, and current capacity for safety.

Meditation Is Not for Everyone—and That's Okay

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (03:09) **Introduction and Alanis's Meditation Album** - Mayim and Jonathan welcome Alanis Morissette; they discuss her meditation album "The Storm Before the Calm" and the necessity of restoration.
  • 2 (07:22) **What "Rest" Actually Provides** - Alanis reframes meditation as a path to "hyper presence" and clarifies that the goal is being with what's happening in the moment.
  • 3 (09:57) **The 11 Tracks of "The Storm Before the Calm"** - Alanis explains how she created the meditation album from an "inside out" somatic state, naming tracks after the feeling they offered.
  • 4 (17:49) **Early Career and the Shift to Authenticity** - Alanis reflects on her early pop career in Canada and the freedom she found moving to LA.
  • 5 (22:59) **Prophetic Visions and the Drive to Keep Going** - Alanis describes having "prophetic pictures" of her future career (touring, traveling) from a young age.
  • 6 (25:50) **Anger as a Catalyst, Not a Problem** - Alanis and Mayim discuss the difference between healthy anger and destructive rage, and how to move anger through the body.
  • 7 (33:55) **Disordered Eating and Patriarchal Messaging** - Alanis connects disordered eating to the pervasive cultural message that "there's something wrong with you" and that you must chase an impossible standard.

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Show Notes

Today, in honor of Eating Disorders Awareness Week, we’re revisiting one of our very popular episodes from way back in 2022 with singer, songwriter, musician, Alanis Morissette.


Alanis Morissette (singer, songwriter, musician) breaks down different versions of restoration, the dangers of intolerance and a lack of boundary-setting, and the beauty of anger as a catalyst for positive change. She explains why meditation may not be for everyone, the benefits of guided meditations, and her approach to creating her new meditation album. Alanis opens up about the origins of her disordered eating, her prophetic visions about her career, and the dangers of turning anger inward. Mayim and Jonathan discuss the reasons we project our parents’ relationship onto our own partners, cranial sacral therapy, and what it means to truly rest. Stick around until the end to hear Mayim sing and dissect Alanis’s lyrics!


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