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From the Oscars to MomTok… the Mess Never Stopped

March 19, 2026

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“If I had legs I’d kick you,” the movie, is not about a kid who is just annoying. It has a point. The hosts of The Hangover podcast, Sochi and Heather, spend this episode running through the Oscars, the messy reality TV news cycle, and a new dating show, all while circling a shared frustration: people with big platforms who don’t do the homework. Whether it’s an influencer interviewing Julia Fox without having watched her movie, or Academy voters who aren’t required to see the films they vote for, the episode is a running commentary on who gets to talk, and what they should know before they do.

The Oscars: Wins, Snubs, and the In Memoriam Problem

The hosts recap the 2024 Academy Awards with a mix of genuine joy and sharp critique. Sochi correctly predicted Best Picture, Best Director, Best Screenplays, and Best Actor, which she calls “being a witch.” She was most emotional about the Best Actor win for Adrien Brody, whose genuine surprise and humble reaction reminded her of watching him on All My Children with her grandmother. Heather was thrilled that horror finally got its due, specifically calling out the industry’s history of snubbing Toni Collette for Hereditary and Lupita Nyong’o for Us.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (01:20) **Life Updates & Weekend Recaps** - The hosts catch up on recent personal travels, including trips to New York City and Washington D.C., and Heather shares she's pursuing a second master's degree in marriage therapy.
  • 2 (07:30) **Oscar Chaos & Host Predictions** - The hosts dive into the logistical chaos the Oscars caused in Hollywood and share their correct predictions for the major awards.
  • 3 (12:00) **Best Actor Reaction & Snubs** - The hosts analyze Adrien Brody's genuine reaction to winning Best Actor and argue that Jesse Plemons and Delroy Lindo were robbed of nominations.
  • 4 (14:38) **Bay Area Wins & Asian Representation** - The hosts highlight historic wins for the Bay Area and praise the increased Asian representation across the ceremony.
  • 5 (20:49) **In Memoriam & After-Party Journalism** - The hosts critique the In Memoriam segment for forgetting people and slam influencer Jake Shane for lacking research at the Vanity Fair after-party.
  • 6 (30:02) **MomTok Drama: Taylor Frankie Paul** - The hosts transition to reality TV drama, starting with the *Secret Lives of Mormon Wives* star Taylor Frankie Paul and her messy Bachelorette situation.
  • 7 (34:35) **Love Island Fallout: Huda's Harassment** - The hosts discuss the restraining order filed against *Love Island* star Huda for allegedly harassing her boyfriend's ex-girlfriend.

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Show Notes

We are breaking down the Oscars: the wins we cried over, the snubs that still sting, the performance that needs to go straight to Broadway, and a gentle reminder that the venue is literally a mall. Then MomTok imploded (again) — Taylor Frankie Paul is heading to The Bachelorette with a situation that would get anyone else called out, and Love Island's Huda is back for all the wrong reasons. We also fell into Age of Attraction on Netflix, which turned into a full dating discourse about age gaps, the rule of sevens, and why not knowing a Fat Joe and Ashanti song is a dealbreaker.

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