My Drunk Driving Accident Killed a Man — Then I Spent 6 Years in Prison | Bo Cornelius
November 3, 2026
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5 min read"I Knew I Was Headed for Death"
Bo Cornelius was drinking a pint of vodka before work every morning, taking Adderall so he could keep drinking more, and telling himself in the mirror, "You're gonna die. This is gonna kill you." He was right — but not in the way he expected. In 2016, while driving drunk two miles from his home, he struck another car. The man inside, an elderly driver in a rusted Ford Escort, died the next morning from brain swelling. Cornelius pleaded guilty to involuntary manslaughter and spent six years in Missouri prisons. What he found inside — and what he built there — became the foundation of a nonprofit that now works inside multiple state prisons and is being invited into the federal Bureau of Prisons.
The Spiral Before the Crash
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What you'll learn
- 1 (01:29) **Drinking Escalation & Self-Awareness of Impending Death** - Bo describes his daily drinking routine that went from evenings to morning, lunch, and after work, and admits he knew he was in a wreck and headed for death.
- 2 (02:21) **Childhood Roots: Lack of Guidance & Religious Trauma** - Bo explains how a chaotic childhood with a divorced mother, multiple stepfathers, and a "fuck you, watch me" attitude set him on a destructive path.
- 3 (08:31) **The "Rock" Theory: Why Prison Became Inevitable** - Bo argues that without a true north or a person to tell you "no," you make one left turn after another until you end up in prison.
- 4 (11:30) **Entrepreneurial Drive & Misplaced Priorities** - Bo explains how he built a successful business by age 26, but admits that money meant too much and his "loves got all out of order."
- 5 (15:13) **The First Drink at Work & The Seizure Incident** - Bo recounts the moment he first drank on the job, buying a small bottle of vodka for after work but drinking it during the 25-minute drive, and how this led to a seizure and a DUI.
- 6 (22:52) **The Day of the Accident** - Bo describes the day of the fatal accident, from his typical drinking routine to the moment he hit an elderly man's car.
- 7 (33:53) **Guilt, Shame & The Plea Deal** - Bo describes the immediate aftermath: severe depression, suicidal thoughts, and being told by his lawyer that he was facing 13 years despite a witness statement that he wasn't speeding or swerving.
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Show Notes
Bo Cornelius went from battling alcohol addiction to serving six years in Missouri state prison after a drunk driving accident took another man's life. In this episode of Locked In with Ian Bick, Bo opens up about how his drinking spiraled out of control, the devastating day that changed two families forever, and what it took to survive behind bars. He shares how prison forced him to confront his actions, rebuild his life, and discover a new purpose. Today, as the founder of Second Mountain, Bo is helping transform prison culture through leadership programs that empower incarcerated individuals and correctional staff across state and federal facilities.
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Connect with Bo Cornelius:
https://www.secondmountainleadership.org/about-us
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Hosted, Executive Produced & Edited By Ian Bick:
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Timestamps:
00:00 Drinking Every Day
00:32 Who Is Bo Cornelius?
00:52 Childhood and Moving Around
02:38 Following His Mom's Marriages
03:18 A Chip on His Shoulder
05:16 Childhood Trauma and Religious Abuse
07:02 Finding Perspective in Prison
09:48 Where Leadership Came From
12:00 What Money Meant to Him
13:42 The First Drink at Work
15:12 Pain, Pills, and Escalation
17:02 Seizures and Probation
19:50 The Rehab That Failed
21:05 Family History of Addiction
22:37 How the Community Saw Him
23:54 The Day of the Accident
28:00 Learning Someone Died
31:32 Functioning While Drunk
33:25 Community Reaction and Shame
36:58 Depression in the Aftermath
38:20 The First Prison Visit
41:48 Facing the Prison Sentence
43:52 Why His Wife Stayed
47:56 Preparing for Prison
49:18 First Day Behind Bars
54:11 Entry Point and Rock Bottom
57:53 From Five House to 16 House
01:00:10 Finding His Way in Prison
01:03:38 Prison Politics Surprises
01:07:53 Why Prisons Make It That Way
01:11:43 Case Managers and Counselors
01:14:40 No Real Job Training
01:17:30 Why He Chose the Dog Program
01:21:00 The Moment It Hit Him
01:22:36 The Day Kenny Died
01:28:00 Finding Leadership at the Summit
01:33:20 Building Community Behind Bars
01:37:17 Writing the GLA Proposal
01:40:02 Launching the GLA Program
01:43:55 How the Program Works
01:48:40 Sticking With It After Release
01:51:20 The Summit After Prison
01:54:01 Starting Second Mountain
01:59:00 Returning to Prison
02:00:10 The Death That Changed Things
02:03:40 Bridging Inmates and Staff
02:08:51 What He Values Now
02:09:39 Trying to
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