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5 min readA woman stands in her kitchen in the second week of March, holding a guitar she bought in January. She has practiced most evenings for nine weeks. Her fingers still hurt. The chord changes are still clumsy—"like someone falling down a flight of stairs." She looks at the guitar for a long moment, puts it back on its stand, and does not pick it up again for two years. She was not lazy. She practiced almost every night. She simply arrived at the ninth week and found herself still bad, and something in her concluded that this meant she would always be bad.
This episode of Daily Wisdom begins there, with the ordinary frustration of things that take time to ripen. The central argument is that the slowness we keep fighting is not an obstacle standing between us and the thing we want. In most of the cases that truly matter, the slowness is where the thing is being made.
The flat stretch and the warped schedule
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:00) **Episode Introduction & Format Change** - The host announces that Daily Wisdom is shifting from five short daily capsules to a single longer weekly conversation, while keeping the same unhurried pace and focus on ordinary questions.
- 2 (03:01) **The Core Question: "Why Does Everything Take So Long?"** - The host frames the central problem: the weariness of being in the middle of a slow process, and hints that the answer isn't about patience but about rethinking the nature of slowness itself.
- 3 (03:49) **The Guitar in March: A Story of Abandonment** - A woman buys a guitar in January, practices for nine weeks, and still sounds bad; she puts it down for two years, concluding she must always be bad.
- 4 (05:34) **The Plateau of Hard Boring Work** - The initial "beginner's rush" fades around week six or nine, leaving only hard, boring work with no visible result, which is where most people quit.
- 5 (08:43) **The Warped Schedule: Why We Feel Behind** - We absorb a compressed picture of change from before-and-after photos, success stories, and instant digital gratification, leading us to measure our slow lives against an unrealistic schedule.
- 6 (11:44) **A Reassurance: It's Not a Signal About Your Character** - The host offers a direct reassurance that the weariness of the middle is not a sign of personal failure, but the universal feeling of being in a slow process.
- 7 (12:19) **Four Unhelpful Responses to the Plateau** - The host outlines four common actions we take when we hit the flat stretch, all of which make things worse.
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Show Notes
Today we're going to sit with a frustration that lives underneath a great many abandoned projects and unfinished changes, the frustration of things that simply take time to ripen.
More resources:
- Free resources, books and more on https://wordsoftaoism.com/
- My Substack Blog: https://taoismteachings.substack.com/
- Music I use, as a playlist: https://tinyurl.com/spotifyzenplaylist
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