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This will make you a better decision-maker | Annie Duke (author of “Thinking in Bets” and “Quit,” former pro poker player)

May 2, 2024

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Annie Duke, former pro poker player and author of Thinking in Bets and Quit, shares decision-making strategies drawn from poker, psychology, and her work with firms like First Round Capital. Drawing on lessons from Daniel Kahneman—humility, openness to being wrong, and adversarial collaborations—she emphasizes making implicit intuitions explicit to test and improve them, as intuition works sometimes but fails without scrutiny.

Parenting tools as decision aids

Duke applies everyday parenting tactics to broader decisions. "Mental time travel" involves projecting how a choice will feel in the future—say, a week or 10 years from now—to counter the focusing illusion where current emotions inflate importance. For instance, when kids argue against grounding, she listens fully then uses "nevertheless" to affirm their input while enforcing the decision: "I hear you. Nevertheless, you're grounded." This builds in workplaces too, fostering feeling heard without coercion, balancing empathy and authority.

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What you'll learn

1 `* (03:58) **Lessons from Daniel Kahneman**`
2 `* (09:11) **Parenting frameworks as decision tools**`
3 `* (20:59) **Delta from better decisions: Make implicit explicit**`
4 `* (24:54) **Optimal meetings: Discover independently, discuss only**`
5 `* (35:58) **Feeling heard without coercion in DRI decisions**`
6 `* (45:23) **No long feedback loops: Use correlated proxies**`
7 `* (55:47) **First Round's explicit decision rubric**`

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Show Notes

Annie Duke is a former professional poker player, a decision-making expert, and a special partner at First Round Capital. She is the author of Thinking in Bets (a national bestseller) and Quit: The Power of Knowing When to Walk Away and the co-founder of the Alliance for Decision Education, a nonprofit whose mission is to improve lives by empowering students through decision skills education. In our conversation, we cover:

• What Annie learned from the late Daniel Kahneman

• The power of pre-mortems and “kill criteria”

• The relationship between money and happiness

• The power of “mental time travel”

• The nominal group technique for better decision quality

• How First Round Capital improved their decision-making process

• Many tactical decision-making frameworks

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