Redefining success, money, and belonging | Paul Millerd (The Pathless Path)
November 19, 2023
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5 min readPaul Millerd shares insights from his book The Pathless Path, which has sold over 40,000 copies, drawing from his shift from consulting to independent writing, podcasting, and workshops. He contrasts the "default path"—a scripted life of college, full-time job, house, and continuous work—with a "pathless path" that embraces uncertainty, experimentation, and work that energizes rather than drains.
Recognizing the Default Path
Most people follow an unconscious script shaped by culture, like steady employment from early adulthood, even if they think they're innovating. Signs include rigid work schedules (e.g., Monday-Friday, 8-10 hours), tying identity to job output, or feeling shame about time off. Even high-achievers at places like Airbnb often retain an internal "manager" enforcing these rules. Benefits of staying include stability, but costs involve lost aliveness and inflexibility amid disruptions like job scarcity (citing MIT economist David Autor) and life changes.
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What you'll learn
- 1 *(00:00:30) **Guest Intro: Paul Millerd and The Pathless Path**
- 2 *(00:05:02) **Defining the Default Path**
- 3 *(00:09:25) **Core Concept: The Pathless Path**
- 4 *(00:12:29) **Examples of Pathless Paths**
- 5 *(00:16:05) **Creating Space: Sabbaticals and Micro-Experiments**
- 6 *(00:23:40) **Discovery Tactics: Energy Tracking and Conversations**
- 7 *(00:29:12) **Financial Enablers and Taming Fears**
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Show Notes
Paul Millerd spent several years working in strategy consulting and on the “default path” before deciding to walk away to work on his own in 2017. His book, The Pathless Path, chronicles his own journey and deep dive into the history of work and has been read by more than 40,000 people. His podcast, The Pathless Path Podcast, highlights conversations with others following unconventional paths. He also runs the online training business StrategyU, helping people learn the skills of consulting without having to work in the industry. In our conversation, Paul shares:
• An explanation of the “default path” and the “pathless path”
• Signs you may be stuck on the default path
• How to inch your way toward the pathless path
• Why Paul suggests everyone should take a three-month sabbatical
• Tips for embracing fear and betting on yourself
• How to work through the fear of losing money and prestige
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Where to find Paul Millerd:
• X: https://twitter.com/p_millerd
• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/paulmillerd/
• Website: https://pathlesspath.com/
• Newsletter: https://newsletter.pathlesspath.com
• YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCofS_FvauuHc-x6mq7yz6nA
• Podcast: https://think-boundless.com/podcast/
• Email: [email protected]
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• Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com
• X: https://twitter.com/lennysan
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