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How to discover your superpowers, own your story, and unlock personal growth | Donna Lichaw (author of The Leader’s Journey)

February 25, 2024

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Donna Lichaw, author of The Leader's Journey, explains how leaders can use personal storytelling—drawing from psychology and neuroscience—to reframe self-narratives, embrace strengths and vulnerabilities, and drive growth. Her approach flips user-centered product thinking inward: start with your own story as the hero, fueled by mission and obstacles, then extend to teams. She shares examples from coaching founders and executives at companies like Google and Disney.

Reframing self-stories with data

Leaders often cling to unhelpful internal stories like "I'm too nice" or "no one listens," which shape actions as if true since the brain treats stories as reality. To test them, treat colleagues as "users": gather feedback through interviews or 360s, much like customer discovery. One CEO learned his "too nice" story hid his heartfelt style that attracted talent; his "not taken seriously" issue was really about needing to empower executives with vision and problems rather than directives. For true issues, like an executive too quiet in meetings, communicate your style (e.g., "I process slowly and listen deeply") to align perceptions—often sparking reciprocal openness, like sharing personal OS or README files.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 `* (04:29) **Donna's origin story and shift to executive coaching**`
  • 2 `* (09:21) **Story-driven leadership: Be the hero of your own story**`
  • 3 `* (14:49) **CEO example: Data-driven story rewrite**`
  • 4 `* (21:19) **True feedback: Quiet executive reframes listening style**`
  • 5 `* (25:41) **Imposter syndrome and kryptonite: Embrace functional "weaknesses"**`
  • 6 `* (37:06) **Identifying superpowers from peak experiences**`
  • 7 `* (55:32) **Energy audits and management**`

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Show Notes

Donna Lichaw is an internationally sought-after executive coach, keynote speaker, and best-selling author. She helps visionary founders, CEOs, and executive teams level up their leadership and scale their impact while staying true to their mission, purpose, and themselves. Donna works with leaders at companies like Google, Disney, Twitter, Microsoft, Mailchimp, and Adobe, as well as a plethora of mission-driven startups and nonprofits. In our conversation, we discuss:

• How our personal narratives influence our success and failure

• Why identifying your superpowers (and kryptonite) is so important, and how to do it

• The value of doubling down on your strengths rather than trying to fix weaknesses

• How to acknowledge and reframe feelings of impostor syndrome

• The Double Diamond framework for personal growth and goal-setting

• The power of visualization and how it can fuel motivation and creativity

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Find the full transcript at: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com/p/how-to-discover-your-superpowers

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Where to find Donna Lichaw:

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dlichaw/

• Website: https://www.donnalichaw.com/

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• Newsletter: https://www.lennysnewsletter.com

• X: https://twitter.com/lennysan

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lennyrachitsky/

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In this episode, we cover:

(00:00) Donna’s background

(04:25) Donna’s origin story and transition to coaching

(08:38) The power of storytelling in leadership

(11:36) Becoming the hero of your own story

(14:49) Changing your story

(21:19) Understanding and shifting others’ stories

(25:41) Imposter syndrome

(31:28) Exploring different types of kryptonite

(36:41) Identifying and leveraging strengths

(43:53) Identifying superpowers

(56:39) Running experiments

(01:01:52) Using product frameworks for personal growth

(01:12:41) Identifying subconscious goals

(01:15:27) Envisioning impact

(01:16:44) Lightning round

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Referenced:

• The Leader’s Journey: Transforming Your Leadership to Achieve the Extraordin

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