Ikke Et Ord Om Politik
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Influencer Mathias Bach

July 4, 2025

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Mathias Bach, a 24-year-old social media influencer with a quarter-million followers, sat down with Danish People's Party chairman Morten Messerschmidt for a conversation that was never going to be comfortable. Bach grew up in Næstved, knew he was homosexual by age six or seven, and described his childhood as a constant mismatch: "I've never been a boy out fighting." He channeled his energy into the piano. When Messerschmidt, in an attempt to understand Bach's relationship dynamic, asked if Bach was "the woman in the relationship," Bach pushed back firmly: "I'm homosexual because I like men. That's how far I'm at." That exchange set the tone for a raw, personal, and politically charged conversation about identity, community, and what it means to be free.

Growing Up Feminine in a Small Town

Bach described a childhood defined by being visibly different. He was feminine from a young age, and the other children noticed. "I was just feminine. It was pretty clear to people that I wasn't a boy," he said. In a small town like Næstved, where you grow up with the same faces year after year, there was no escape from the label. He remembers thinking, "Why me? Why am I the one who should be homosexual? Why not someone else?" He felt singled out by fate, or by God, and knew the coming years would be difficult.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (00:00) **Introduction & Mathias's Origin Story** - Mathias is introduced as a social media phenomenon with a quarter million followers; host Morten frames the conversation as a "mentor process."
  • 2 (02:14) **Growing Up in Næstved: Early Signs and Identity** - Mathias recounts realizing he was homosexual at age 6-7 and feeling different due to his femininity.
  • 3 (04:00) **Internal Struggle: "Why Me?"** - Mathias describes the unfairness he felt about being homosexual and the anticipation of future hardship.
  • 4 (05:04) **Provincial vs. Copenhagen Experience** - Discussion on how growing up in a smaller town (Næstved) versus a city like Copenhagen affects the experience of being homosexual.
  • 5 (06:31) **Femininity vs. Masculinity: The Hooligan Analogy** - Mathias defends feminine gay men by comparing them to hyper-masculine football hooligans.
  • 6 (08:14) **Defining Roles in a Relationship** - Mathias clarifies that being feminine does not mean being "the woman" in his relationship with his partner, Dot.
  • 7 (09:55) **The Liberation of Moving to Copenhagen** - Mathias describes moving to Copenhagen as the best thing that ever happened to him.

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Show Notes

Da influencer Mathias Bach voksede op i provinsen, lærte han tidligt, hvordan det føles at skille sig ud som homoseksuel.

I denne uges podcast taler Mathias Bach og Morten Messerschmidt om identitet, rettigheder og samfundets syn på LGBTQ+ personer. De diskuterer, hvad det vil sige at stå ved sig selv og turde skille sig ud fra mængden.

Samtalen er ærlig, intens og fyldt med humor, og da de har forskellige synspunkter, udvikler den sig til en debat, hvor bølgerne går højt.

Lyt med til en samtale om mod, forskellighed og fællesskab.
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