How We Met Ted Mosby [with John Cho] | S3E6 "I'm Not That Guy"
June 22, 2026
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5 min read“I am guilty. Please acquit me.” That line, delivered by John Cho as the magnificently sleazy Jefferson Coatsworth, opens the episode “I’m Not That Guy” — and it tells you everything you need to know about the kind of seduction Marshall is about to face. The third season of How I Met Your Mother is now deep in its run, and this episode (written by Jonathan Groff, a Jeopardy champion and former Conan head writer whom Carter and Craig idolized in college) plants three storylines that all circle the same question: what are you willing to compromise to get what you want?
The Seduction of Marshall Eriksen
Marshall has just graduated from law school and is about to take a job at the NRDC, saving the planet for almost no money. He and Lily are newly married, want to have kids, and are living with Ted. Enter Jefferson Coatsworth (John Cho), a recruiter for the evil-sounding but very well-paying law firm Nicholson, Hewitt & West. Cho plays the role with a kind of effortless menace — he sits on the desk, offers Marshall a free meal, and never once acts like he’s trying. As Craig Thomas notes, “If you go to a C-minus agent, they’ll keep you waiting for two hours. But if you go to CAA, they’ll be early to the meeting and have all the time in the world for you.” Cho’s performance captures that exact dynamic: the more powerful you are, the less you need to prove it. The episode opens
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What you'll learn
- 1 (05:05) **Episode Introduction & Writer Jonathan Groff** - Josh, Craig, and Alec introduce S3E6 "I'm Not That Guy," written by Jonathan Groff, a former Conan head writer and Jeopardy champion
- 2 (07:10) **Episode Overview: Three Storylines** - Craig outlines the three main plots: Marshall being seduced by a corporate job, Barney finding a porn starring "Ted Mosby," and Lily's secret credit card debt
- 3 (09:50) **The Show's Honest Relationship with Money** - The hosts discuss how HIMYM acknowledged financial realities for young adults in New York, unlike many sitcoms
- 4 (14:04) **Prophetic Writing: Environment & Porn** - Josh notes the episode's prescience on environmental devastation and the porn industry, issues that have only grown since 2007
- 5 (15:32) **Josh's Origin Story with John Cho** - Josh shares how his first LA audition for the WB pilot "Off Center" led to him working with John Cho, only to be replaced later
- 6 (18:15) **Marshall's Existential Career Crisis** - The hosts connect Marshall's dilemma to the broader theme of your twenties: "Who am I vis-à-vis my career?"
- 7 (22:05) **Ted's Porn Doppelgänger Storyline** - The sweet, weirdly charming subplot where Ted helps a well-meaning former classmate (Kevin Heffernan) who became a porn actor named "Ted Mosby"
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Show Notes
Josh and Craig dive into Season 3, Episode 6, “I’m Not That Guy,” and find a surprisingly rich episode hiding beneath the jokes. They discuss Jonathan Groff’s first credited HIMYM script (the writer, not the actor), Marshall’s struggle between environmental idealism and financial security, Lily’s secret credit-card debt and how unusual it was to make her the one in the wrong, and Ted’s bizarre discovery that a porn actor has adopted his name as a tribute. Along the way, they reflect on money as a real concern for twenty-somethings, the challenges of finding your path after college, Josh’s own early Hollywood setback, and the way HIMYM tried to let life continue from episode to episode instead of resetting every week. The episode also includes a bonus excerpt from a later interview with John Cho, who talks about playing the charmingly evil Jefferson Coatsworth, working without a studio audience, and why HIMYM’s dense joke-writing stood out. Craig also shares the real-life inspiration for Marshall’s environmental-law storyline, drawn from college friend Noah Garrison, while the episode opens and closes with emotional listener messages that lead to discussions of congenital heart disease research and Craig’s novel, That’s Not How It Happened.
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