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5 min readThe cold open of How I Met Your Mother’s “Slapsgiving” (Season 3, Episode 9) features Ted and Robin’s “Major General Corporal Colonel” salute, a joke that co-creator Craig Thomas claims he invented in high school. But on this episode of How We Made Your Mother, a voicemail from Thomas’s childhood friend Joel argues the joke was his, not Craig’s. This dispute over ownership of a silly salute becomes the episode’s unlikely emotional engine, as Thomas explains he reverse-engineered the entire script around a single idea: that friendship can be an involuntary reflex, something so deeply ingrained it survives even when you try to kill it.
The Argument Over the Salute and the Fallibility of Memory
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:01) **Ad Break** - Alma and PGM ad spots.
- 2 (01:32) **Cold Open: The Great Salute Debate** - Joel, Alec's childhood friend, calls in to claim ownership of the "Major General Colonel" salute joke.
- 3 (02:34) **Hosts React & The Ownership War Continues** - Josh and Craig dissect Alec's message and the origins of the iconic salute.
- 4 (07:40) **The "Sticky Joke" Phenomenon** - The discussion expands on how the salute joke has infiltrated the hosts' daily lives and the fallibility of memory.
- 5 (09:47) **Housekeeping & Life Updates** - Josh and Craig catch up on their long-awaited dinner and personal travels.
- 6 (14:10) **Episode Introduction: "Slapsgiving"** - The hosts set up S3E9, discussing its writer and place in the season.
- 7 (18:44) **The Ted & Robin Dynamic** - The hosts break down the A-plot of Ted and Robin struggling to remain friends post-breakup.
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Show Notes
Josh and Craig revisit “Slapsgiving,” one of the series’ most beloved episodes, beginning with the latest—and perhaps fiercest yet—chapter in the battle between producer Alek Lev and his childhood best friend Joel over who truly invented the legendary “Major General” salute. (Alek did. He can say that now because he’s writing these show notes.) From there, they celebrate Matt Kuhn’s script, Orson Bean’s unforgettable guest performance as Bob, and how the episode balances outrageous comedy with genuine emotional stakes as Ted and Robin struggle to figure out whether they can really stay friends after their breakup. They also reflect on Jason Segel’s iconic “You Just Got Slapped” song, the episode’s many classic running gags, and how How I Met Your Mother created its own shared language that fans still use today. The episode closes with a thoughtful listener letter about how different characters resonate at different stages of life—from Barney in youth, to Ted while searching for love, to Marshall and Lily in marriage—highlighting the show’s remarkable ability to grow alongside its audience.
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