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5 min readThe novelist Leo Tolstoy captured what he called “the eternal error” of human desire: we imagine that happiness consists in getting what we want, but the fulfillment of a longing delivers only “one grain of the mountain of bliss” we anticipated. Psychologist George Lowenstein of Carnegie Mellon University has spent decades studying why this is so—and the answer, he argues, is that the greatest obstacles to happiness are not external circumstances but the emotional machinery inside our own minds.
The hedonic treadmill and the near-death lesson
Lowenstein’s own career illustrates the phenomenon perfectly. After a disastrous academic job search—he had zero interviews except one to sell dog food—he landed a position at the University of Chicago through a fluke. He was relieved, even happy, for a few weeks. Then reality set in: his office was in the basement, directly under the dean’s bathroom, with a pipe that loudly announced every flush. The first year was “one of the most miserable of my life.” He had achieved his goal, but the satisfaction evaporated almost immediately.
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:03) **Introduction: The Eternal Error of Happiness** - Shankar opens with Tolstoy's *Anna Karenina* to illustrate how achieving a long-desired goal often brings only a fleeting sense of fulfillment.
- 2 (04:12) **Guest Introduction: George Lowenstein** - Shankar introduces George Lowenstein, a psychologist at Carnegie Mellon who studies the internal saboteurs of happiness.
- 3 (08:04) **The Hedonic Treadmill & A Near-Fatal Canoe Trip** - Lowenstein explains the hedonic treadmill and then tells a harrowing personal story that shows its dangerous consequences.
- 4 (16:58) **Second Enemy: Emotional Feedback Loops** - Our emotions can trap us by reprogramming our minds to recall negative memories and take actions that worsen our situation.
- 5 (18:30) **The Case of Primo Levi** - Lowenstein uses the suicide of Holocaust survivor Primo Levi to illustrate how depression creates a sense of permanence.
- 6 (21:54) **The Misery Survey: Lives of Quiet Desperation** - Lowenstein discusses his "misery survey," which asked hundreds of people about their greatest misery.
- 7 (24:11) **The Inability to Let Go** - A key internal enemy is our inability to control our own feelings, even when we rationally want to.
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Show Notes
We often imagine that feelings of unhappiness come from outside us — in our circumstances or the difficult people in our lives. But what if the forces that erode our happiness come from within? Psychologist George Loewenstein joins us to explore why our minds nudge us toward the negative, even when we want to feel positive. He also offers ways to better understand these forces and lessen their power over us. And on Your Questions Answered, psychologist Alison Ledgerwood returns to respond to your questions about our tendency to focus on the negative.
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