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What If It’s Actually a Blessing? • followHIM Favorites • Oct 26–Nov 1 • Come, Follow Me 2026

October 22, 2026

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In the middle of Lamentations, a book the podcast host calls “Depression,” Jeremiah writes about remembering his affliction and misery—the wormwood and the gall—and then says something strange: “This I recall to my mind, therefore have I hope.” The hope comes not from the suffering ending, but from the conviction that God’s mercies do not fail. That paradox is the thread of this episode, and the hosts use a single extended parable to explore it.

The central story comes from Max Lucado’s The Woodcutter’s Wisdom. An old man in a tiny village owns a beautiful white horse that he refuses to sell. One morning the horse is gone. The neighbors call it a curse. The old man replies: “Say only that the horse is not in the stable. That’s all we know. The rest is judgment on your part.” Fifteen days later the horse returns, bringing a dozen wild horses with him. Now the neighbors call it a blessing. The old man says again: “Say only that the horse is back. We don’t know if it’s a blessing or a curse yet.” His son tries to break the wild horses, falls, and breaks both legs. Curse, the neighbors insist. The old man refuses to judge. A few weeks later war breaks out; all the young men are conscripted except the son with the broken legs. Now the neighbors are certain: the accident was a blessing. The old man’s final reply is the episode’s thesis: “No one knows. Say only this. Your sons had

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  • 1 (00:03) **Episode Introduction** - John and Hank introduce the episode as a single-story "Follow HIM Favorites" tied to Jeremiah and Lamentations.
  • 2 (00:42) **The Parable of the Old Man and the Horse** - John shares a parable by Max Lucado about an old man whose prized horse goes missing.
  • 3 (03:07) **The Parable's Moral: We Only See a Fragment** - John explains the old man's wisdom: life's events are only a page in a grand book, and we must be slow to draw conclusions.
  • 4 (03:45) **Real-Life Examples of the Principle** - Hank and John apply the parable to modern experiences.
  • 5 (04:48) **Episode Wrap-Up and Full Podcast Promotion** - Hank and John invite listeners to the full "Follow HIM" podcast for deeper discussion.
  • 6 Standout Quotes
  • 7 (01:19) "Say only that the horse is not in the stable. That's all we know. The rest is judgment on your part."

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