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5 min readIn 2026, 99% of homes for sale in Los Angeles are unaffordable for someone earning the local median income. That single number from Daryl Fairweather, chief economist at Redfin and author of Hate the Game, crystallizes how profoundly the rules of homeownership have shifted. The old advice—buy as soon as you can, put 20% down, watch your equity grow—was written for a different era. Fairweather’s conversation with host Tori Dunlap is less about whether you can afford a home and more about how to make an honest decision when the system itself feels rigged.
The System Was Built for People Who Already Won
Fairweather points out that the housing market is not a neutral playing field. Local zoning rules, tax policies that freeze property taxes for existing owners, and the political power of NIMBYism—homeowners who block new development—all tilt the game toward people who already have a home. “Most games are designed by and for the winners,” she says. Baby boomers who bought decades ago benefit from policies that make it harder for new housing to get built, which keeps prices high. The same generation that tells younger buyers “it was hard for me too” often forgets that government loan programs, mass federal investment in homebuilding, and a one-income economy made their path far easier. Fairweather’s blunt assessment: “They’re the ones saying no to housing getting built in thei
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What you'll learn
- 1 (02:52) **The Real State of Affordability** - Daryl confirms that housing has become genuinely unaffordable for many, with prices at record highs and mortgage rates more than double pandemic levels.
- 2 (04:45) **Redefining "Winning" in an Unwinnable Market** - Daryl argues that winning means making a conscious trade-off aligned with your values, not necessarily becoming a homeowner.
- 3 (06:04) **Smart Moves for Renters and Stuck Buyers** - Daryl outlines a strategic framework for renters who feel stuck, focusing on discipline and long-term planning.
- 4 (07:56) **Why the Market Will Eventually Shift** - Daryl explains the demographic trends that will improve affordability, even if prices don't crash.
- 5 (10:08) **Climate Change and the Hidden Cost of Insurance** - The conversation shifts to how climate change is reshaping where and what you can afford to buy.
- 6 (13:00) **The Five-Year Rule and When to Actually Buy** - Daryl clarifies the traditional wisdom on when buying makes financial sense.
- 7 (16:42) **Daryl’s Personal Mistake: Buying Before You're Ready** - Daryl shares her own story of buying a home in San Diego before she was ready to settle down, driven by family pressure.
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Show Notes
If there’s one piece of info to take away from today’s guest, it’s that there’s no "perfect" moment to buy a home. It's about timing your life, not the market. In today’s episode, I sat down with repeat guest Daryl Fairweather –– Chief Economist at Redfin and author of Hate the Game: Economic Cheat Codes for Life, Love, and Work. We got into the real, updated math on buying a home in 2026: mortgage rates, whether prices have already peaked, the climate risk nobody's pricing in correctly, and the creative paths (co-buying, ADUs, house hacking) more people are turning to because the old rules just don't work anymore. If you've felt priced out, behind, or like homeownership might not be "in the cards" for you, this episode will change how you think about the whole decision.
Daryl’s Links:
Website: https://www.redfin.com/
Hate the Game book: https://www.hatethegamebook.com/
Daryl's IG: https://www.instagram.com/fairweatherphd/?hl=en
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00:00 Intro
01:06 Is it too late to buy a home?
03:00 What winning looks like when the system feels unwinnable
04:27 Smart next moves for stuck renters and would-be buyers
06:34 Why housing may get more affordable over the next decade
08:21 Climate change and the coming insurance crisis
11:22 When does buying actually make sense? (the 5-year rule)
14:53 How job stability and housing go hand in hand
17:05 Preparing to buy: talk to a lender early
19:58 Rethinking the 20% down payment
21:16 Creative paths to homeownership: co-buying, ADUs, house hacking
25:07 Starter home vs. waiting for the dream home
27:39 How housing costs will reshape households and family life
28:58 Will the housing market crash?
32:29 Misconceptions keeping people stuck
35:54 What to do if you're priced out right now
37:24 The mindset shift: timing your life, not the market
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