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5 min readThe Couple That Couldn't Align
Shannon makes $5,200 a month as a general manager in St. Louis. Her husband Tanner, 38, calls himself an entrepreneur—currently running a small security operation with a couple of 1099 contractors. But the numbers tell a different story: his security work, drumming gigs, and occasional film projects bring in somewhere between $600 and $900 a month, inconsistently. They have two kids (her biological children, which Tanner pointed out twice in the first ten minutes), and they're eight years into a marriage built on a promise that keeps getting extended.
The agreement was simple before they married: Tanner would get five years to build his film and acting career. Then COVID hit, and Shannon gave him three more. That extended clock runs out in about four months. And Tanner has already told her plainly: "I'm not gonna go work at a 9-to-5."
The Dream That Never Landed
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What you'll learn
- 1 (02:29) **Couple Introduction & Income** - Christian (36) and Tanner (38), a married couple from St. Louis, introduce themselves and their jobs.
- 2 (07:33) **The Eight-Year Entrepreneurship Agreement** - Christian explains she gave Tanner five years to build his film/acting career before marriage, then extended it three more years after COVID.
- 3 (10:54) **He's Not Their Biological Father** - Tanner clarifies the kids are not biologically his, immediately causing tension in the conversation.
- 4 (14:26) **Resentment and Feeling Trapped** - Tanner admits he feels underappreciated and trapped, having gone from a bachelor life to full family responsibility.
- 5 (18:51) **"If This Isn't What You Want, You Can Go"** - Christian reveals she has told Tanner he can leave if he doesn't want the family life, about once or twice a year.
- 6 (27:15) **The Allowance and Control Issue** - Christian admits she controls the finances and gives Tanner an allowance based on what he earns from side work.
- 7 (32:51) **The Failed Restaurant and Coffee Shop** - Christian reveals she owned a restaurant/coffee shop that they bought for $60-65k right before COVID.
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