She Came Here To Fight Me | Financial Audit

June 17, 2026

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She Came Here To Fight Me | Financial Audit

Raven, a 31-year-old esthetician and bakery froster from Denver, came onto Financial Audit insisting she wasn't as bad as the other guests. By the end of the episode, her self-assessed financial score of three out of ten had been revised to zero. She owes $17,000 on a credit card heading toward a lawsuit, owes her boyfriend $1,600 after her car broke down, still owes her uncle roughly $2,500 on a car she bought from her grandmother three years ago, and has unpaid medical bills from a seizure hospitalization. She also has not been setting aside money for self-employment taxes, is on a payment plan for previous years' taxes, and is paying $600 a month to National Debt Relief for accounts she stopped paying at their instruction. Her total monthly income from her lash business (about $3,000) and bakery job (about $750 biweekly) comes to roughly $4,500 before taxes.

The central conflict: personal responsibility vs. blaming the system

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1 (02:01) **Guest introduction** - Raven, 31, from Denver, describes owning an eyelash extension business and working part-time frosting cakes at $18/hour
2 (03:48) **Tax responsibility debate** - Host presses that 30% of business income must be set aside; guest claims prior damage and payment plans prevent saving
3 (06:40) **Core disagreement on accountability** - Guest argues IRS and credit cards are unavoidable; host counters that ongoing non-payment of taxes compounds penalties
4 (10:23) **Credit card lawsuit** - One US Bank card threatening court action after failed settlement attempts; guest considering bankruptcy to avoid
5 (11:35) **Lifestyle and debt origins** - Tattoos, "fake goth" identity, and credit limit increases cited; guest blames banks for easy credit while host emphasizes spending choices
6 (15:32) **Banking system blame** - Guest claims predatory limit raises led to $30k available credit; host insists swiping and spending remain personal decisions
7 (20:28) **Relationship context** - Boyfriend of ten years sent her to the show; finances remain separate and her debt has already impacted his credit via car repair

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