Deepen with Pastor Joby Martin
Deepen with Pastor Joby Martin

Come with Nothing. Receive Everything. - Matthew S5E9

July 27, 2026

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Come with Nothing. Receive Everything.

The episode opens with a striking contrast: children being brought to Jesus while the disciples try to shoo them away, and a rich young ruler approaching with a question about eternal life. These two scenes, set side by side, are not incidental. As Pastor O'Neill puts it, Matthew is presenting "two images" for the jury to hold in mind. Jesus uses both to upend everything his audience thought they knew about how one enters the kingdom of God.

What Children Teach Us That Adults Forget

In the first century, children were not the center of family life. They were marginal, dependent, and had no sense of entitlement. Everything they received came entirely from their parents. That is precisely the posture Jesus points to when he says the kingdom belongs to "such as these."

The pastors push back against a sentimental reading. Children are not innocent—"spend time with a toddler and you'll quickly find out." What they have is need, dependence, and trust. Pastor Joby recalls fishing trips with his father: "I didn't worry about safety. I didn't worry about a fishing license. I didn't worry about gas in the boat. I didn't worry about bait. I didn't have anything. He just had everything. All I had to do was show up."

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (00:46) **Setting Up the Two Witnesses** - Pastors Joby Martin and O'Neill introduce the chapter by framing it as a courtroom scene where Jesus presents two opposing images: children and a rich young ruler.
  • 2 (02:47) **The First-Century View of Children** - The conversation explores how children were seen as a marginalized, dependent group in the ancient world, radically different from modern Western views.
  • 3 (05:14) **The Spiritual Path from Independence to Dependence** - The hosts describe the paradoxical journey where human life moves from dependence to independence, but spiritual life moves from self-sufficiency to total reliance on God.
  • 4 (09:31) **The Fishing Trip Analogy** - A personal story illustrates what it means to trust a father completely, showing the peace that comes from knowing someone else is in charge.
  • 5 (11:03) **The Loss of a Father and the Struggle to Trust** - Pastor O'Neill shares how losing his father at 13 created a lifelong struggle with the posture of dependency toward God.
  • 6 (12:16) **The Fear That Disappears When Dad Walks In** - The conversation moves to how a child's fear vanishes not because circumstances change, but because a trusted authority figure enters the room.
  • 7 (14:36) **The Rich Young Ruler's Bad Question** - The pastors pivot to the second witness, analyzing the rich young ruler's fundamental error in asking "what good deed must I do to inherit eternal life?"

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Show Notes

What if the one thing you're holding onto is the very thing keeping you from fully following Jesus?

In this Deepen Podcast episode, Pastor Joby Martin and Pastor One unpack Matthew 19, exploring childlike faith, the rich young ruler and why salvation can never be earned.

Discover why Jesus isn't asking for better performance but complete surrender, and how true freedom is found when Christ becomes your greatest treasure.

Scripture References:
- Matthew 19
- Genesis 1–2
- Matthew 7:21–23
- Luke 15
- Titus 3:5
- Philippians 1
- Hebrews 12:2
- 1 Timothy 6:10
- Ephesians 2:4–9

Other References:
- The Coddling of the American Mind by Greg Lukianoff and Jonathan Haidt

Supplemental Resources From This Week:
Sermon
Denny's Story
This Week’s Full Service
Matthew Season 5

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