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5 min read"Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. Point out anything in me that offends you, and lead me along the path of everlasting life." That prayer from Psalm 139, which host Ally Yost reads near the midpoint of this episode, is the hinge on which the entire conversation turns. The central argument is that when we feel triggered—by a relationship, a situation, or a season—our first instinct is to blame the trigger itself. But the deeper, more difficult truth is that the trigger may not have created the wound. It may have simply exposed a wound that was already there, one we had mistaken for healed simply because it had stopped being touched.
Healing requires exposure, not avoidance
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:54) **Host Introduction & Episode Setup** - Ally Yost welcomes listeners and introduces the episode as a personal reflection on healing, therapy, and spiritual growth.
- 2 (03:21) **The Role of Therapy in Spiritual Healing** - Ally discusses how therapy, combined with faith, has helped her face suppressed beliefs and behaviors.
- 3 (05:57) **Healing Requires Exposure, Not Avoidance** - Ally introduces the core thesis: healing with Jesus often begins with exposure, not immediate peace.
- 4 (08:08) **The Wound vs. The Trigger** - Ally clarifies that a situation or person may not have created the wound, only revealed it.
- 5 (11:54) **A Deeper Prayer: “Search Me, God”** - Ally contrasts the common prayer for healing with the more vulnerable prayer for exposure.
- 6 (14:35) **Examples of What Relationships Expose** - Ally lists common fears and patterns that relationships can surface, such as fear of abandonment, control, people-pleasing, and buried anger.
- 7 (16:55) **Conviction vs. Condemnation** - Ally distinguishes God’s voice from the enemy’s voice in moments of exposure.
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Show Notes
Hey y'all ! Welcome to another Friday with CWCOI ! In this week's episode, our host, Ally Yost talks about confronting areas of our life that we maybe never fully allowed God to heal us in. The reality is that it won't always be easy to walk through that and we tend to want to blame everthing else but the possibility of God inviting us into deeper healing. Our prayer for this episode is that you find a sense of relatibility in something said today.
"The human heart is the most deceitful of all things, and desperately wicked. Who really knows how bad it is? But I, the Lord, search all hearts and examine secret motives. I give all people their due rewards, according to what their actions deserve." Jeremiah 17:9-10
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