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Kerry Washington: Power, Perfection & Olivia Pope

March 18, 2026

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5 min read

Kerry Washington joins Alex Cooper to reflect on embodying Olivia Pope in Scandal, her path to producing, and personal experiences with perfectionism, secrets, eating disorders, abortion, and family revelations. She connects these to psychological patterns like disembodiment and the pressure to present power while hiding vulnerability, drawing from therapy, acting, and her new series Imperfect Women.

Embodying Power and Leadership

Washington describes role-playing leadership as Olivia Pope—wearing suits, leading "gladiators," and becoming a producer—as a training ground for real power. This duality of public strength and private mess appealed to her, mirroring life's presentation versus truth. She controlled what she could (work ethic, live-tweeting episodes) amid external pressures like network risks on casting a Black woman lead, emphasizing focus on controllable actions to handle uncertainty.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 **[03:46] Intro & Scandal Fangirl Moment**
  • 2 **[05:36] Taking on Olivia Pope: Pressure & Control**
  • 3 **[07:08] Olivia's Duality & Leadership Lessons**
  • 4 **[09:25] Acting Frustrations & Producing Pivot**
  • 5 **[12:22] Shonda Dynamic & Pregnancy Support**
  • 6 **[18:21] Scandal Rapid Fire & Tony Goldwyn Call**
  • 7 **[34:58] Abortion Storyline & Personal Experience**

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Show Notes

Content Warning: This episode includes discussion of disordered eating and suicidal ideation. Please take care while listening.

Join Alex in the studio for an interview with Kerry Washington. Kerry reflects on Scandal, working with Shonda Rhimes, and how Olivia Pope changed her life. She also opens up about her abortion story, learning a massive family secret later in life, and her experiences being a woman in Hollywood. Enjoy!

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National Alliance for Eating Disorders 
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National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA) 
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Equip Health
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