Gisèle Pelicot: After Everything That Happened... I Didn’t Expect To Fall In Love Again | Pt. 2
June 25, 2026
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5 min readGisèle Pelicot became known to the world in 2024 when she waived her right to anonymity in the trial of her ex-husband, who for years had drugged her and invited dozens of strangers to rape her while she was unconscious. In this conversation, she describes the aftermath of that discovery, the painful process of telling her children, and the unexpected path to rebuilding her life. She explains how she came to trust again, why she chose to go public, and what she believes needs to change in society and the justice system.
The discovery and its immediate aftermath
Pelicot learned what had been done to her on November 2, 2020, when police showed her photographs from her then-husband's laptop. Her first reaction was dissociation: "My brain kind of stopped." She had no memory of the assaults because her husband had drugged her into unconsciousness, and that lack of memory shaped her entire experience of the aftermath. Unlike victims who carry the trauma of remembering a rape, she was spared that specific suffering. She describes herself as a "glass half full" person, and even from this disaster she found something positive: she was grateful that her husband had rendered her unconscious so she had no recollection of the horrors.
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What you'll learn
- 1 (00:00) **Ad Break** - Promotional content for DU Health and a New York State public safety message.
- 2 (01:41) **Introduction to Gisèle Pelicot** - Davina introduces Gisèle Pelicot, who waived her anonymity in the 2024 sexual assault case that shocked France, and sets up the difficult content of the interview.
- 3 (02:12) **Discovery of the Betrayal** - Gisèle describes learning in November 2020 that her husband had been drugging and raping her since 2011, and the initial shock and dissociation she experienced.
- 4 (03:47) **The Impact of Speaking Out** - Gisèle discusses the flood of messages from women and men thanking her for giving them the courage to speak or change their perspective.
- 5 (04:30) **Telling Her Children** - The most painful moment of her life: calling her adult children to tell them what their father had done.
- 6 (07:41) **Staying in the Bed of Rape** - Gisèle explains why she initially slept in the same bed where she was assaulted, viewing it as a defense mechanism before she fully processed the horror.
- 7 (10:15) **The Decision to Waive Anonymity** - Gisèle describes her late decision to go public, made after a walk and a conversation with her new partner.
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Show Notes
In Part 1 of Gisèle Pelicot’s story, she spoke to Davina about her life before the world knew her name, the marriage she believed she had, and the moment she began to discover the truth of what had happened to her.
This is Part 2 of Gisèle Pelicot’s story on Begin Again.
Gisèle opens up about the public and private aftermath of the case, the impact on her children, and the pain of having to tell her family that their lives had changed forever.
Gisèle reflects on why she chose to waive her right to anonymity, what it meant to let the world know her name, and why speaking publicly became a way to help other women feel less alone. She talks about the trial, the women who wrote to her, the strength she found in their support, and the responsibility she felt to challenge the shame too often carried by victims.
Davina and Gisèle also speak about rebuilding after trauma: staying connected to her family, finding love again, learning to trust, processing anger, and holding on to hope without denying the pain of what happened.
This episode includes discussion of sexual assault, drugging, trauma, court proceedings, and abuse, which some viewers may find difficult. Please watch with care.
At its heart, Part 2 is a conversation about courage, justice, love, and the power of refusing to carry shame that was never yours.
Gisèle Pelicot reminds us that speaking the truth can help others feel less alone, and that beginning again can also mean standing up, not only for yourself, but for every woman who has been taught to stay silent.
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