Women Shocked They Can't Find A Man | Asmongold

In a viral video, a woman describes attending a Valentine's Day singles event at a New York City paddle club. The vibe was good—food, drinks, a DJ—but there was a problem: "There was more girls and there were guys." She calls it "like the bachelor a little bit." Another woman posts a similar complaint after a Thursday night event: "No attractive men." A third says her event was nearly canceled due to lack of male interest. The pattern is clear, and Asmongold, reacting to these clips, has a blunt explanation for why men don't show up: the men women actually want don't need to be there, and the men who do show up aren't what women are looking for.

Why Men Don't Go

Asmongold breaks down the logic from the male perspective. The women filming these complaints, he argues, are not the kind of women who attract the men they're hoping to meet. "None of the girls that were going there were particularly that attractive," he says. "And so why would a guy want to go there?" He acknowledges the other side of the coin—that some men have unrealistic expectations too, like a man who "thinks that he deserves an 85-pound cat girl that will cook you dinner because you're a king." But the core issue is a mismatch of incentives. The men who are tall, fit, wealthy, or socially skilled—the "Chads" women are hoping to meet—already have a large pool of women pursuing them. They don't need to pay f