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5 min readThe Female Dating Strategy: A Look Inside the DMs
In a reaction video to a compilation called "Female Dating Strategy," Asmongold examines screenshots of women's dating app conversations that mirror many of the same toxic patterns men are often accused of. The central argument that emerges is not that women are worse at dating than men, but that bad behavior in dating is human, not gendered — and that the internet has amplified the worst examples from both sides while creating a culture where people act out unresolved personal trauma through dating profiles.
The Rejection Response Pattern
The most striking pattern across the screenshots is how consistently women respond to rejection with the same few scripts. When a man politely declines or says he has a girlfriend, the replies almost always fall into three categories: "I didn't like you anyway," "I hope you die," or the most common — "You have a small penis." Asmongold points out that this is essentially the female version of the "nice guy" meltdown, just with different insults. One woman, after being gently turned down, cycles through calling the man gay, saying he has a small dick, and then editing her own messages to pretend she wasn't upset. Another sends a man a nude photo unsolicited, and when he doesn't reciprocate, accuses him of "using me for my body."
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What you'll learn
- 1 (01:28) **Opening the "Female Dating Strategy" Reaction** - Asmongold introduces the premise: reacting to a video by Shoe0nHead that showcases terrible dating behavior from women, framed as a female version of his previous "male pick-up attempts" video.
- 2 (03:36) **The "Just Stand There" Myth and Ad Transition** - Asmongold reads the claim that women can get a date by doing nothing, then pivots to a sponsored segment for Henson Shaving.
- 3 (07:00) **First Batch of Screenshots: Immediate Rejection and Overreaction** - Asmongold reads exchanges where women initiate contact, receive a polite response, and then immediately claim to have a boyfriend or lash out.
- 4 (09:19) **The "Physics Class" Crash-Out: Unearthing the Final Boss** - A man politely asks out a woman from his physics class; she declines, and he immediately explodes with insults, calling her delusional and telling her not to talk to him.
- 5 (11:14) **The Root Cause: Fragmented Dating Culture** - Asmongold explains why these toxic interactions happen, pointing to a lack of homogeneous expectations in modern dating.
- 6 (13:00) **The "Please Delete My Number" Encounter** - A woman demands a man delete her number; he calmly says he never saved it, and she immediately becomes offended that he didn't fight for her.
- 7 (15:42) **The Ghosted, Crazy Ex and the "Enrage Timer" Strategy** - A woman sends a furious voicemail to a man who ghosted her, claiming no woman will ever love him like she would have.
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Show Notes
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