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65: BDSM 101 Season 2 + Special Episode

October 19, 2026

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BDSM 101 Season 2: A Rare Healthy Kink Romance

In the podcast episode "BDSM 101 Season 2 + Special Episode," hosts Matthew and Kate revisit a manhwa they first covered 61 episodes earlier, celebrating its completion and reflecting on why it stands apart from nearly every other BDSM-themed BL story they've encountered. The central argument is that BDSM 101 succeeds because it treats kink as a normal, ongoing part of a relationship rather than something to be discarded once characters find "real" love.

The Story and Its Unusual Premise

The manhwa follows Jung Jong-wong, an experienced member of the BDSM community who offers guidance to newcomers. He discovers distressing posts from Kang Hosub, a beginner who has fallen into the hands of an abusive dom. Jong-wong steps in, not just to rescue Hosub but to serve as his temporary dom and teach him the foundations of trust, consent, and desire.

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What you'll learn

  • 1 (00:02) **Episode Introduction** - Matthew and Kate announce they're revisiting BDSM 101, which they first covered in episode 4 of their podcast.
  • 2 (01:37) **Plot Recap and Setup** - Matthew recaps the premise: Jung Wong, an experienced BDSM community member, rescues Kang Hosub from an abusive Dom and becomes his temporary Dom to teach trust, consent, and desire.
  • 3 (04:10) **How the Story Handles Intimacy and Trauma** - The hosts discuss how the series treats penetrative sex as emotionally significant without belittling other forms of intimacy.
  • 4 (05:43) **The Kinky Dynamic and Relationship Growth** - The hosts explore how the characters maintain their kink while developing a romantic relationship.
  • 5 (07:01) **The Melodramatic Plot and Why It Works** - The hosts discuss the kidnapping and stalker confrontation in season two as typical K-drama flair.
  • 6 (08:43) **Hosub's Agency and the Power of Submission** - The hosts highlight how Hosub's ability to save himself shows the health of his relationship with Jung Won.
  • 7 (10:26) **Personal Connection to Hosub's Journey** - Matthew shares a personal connection to the story, explaining how kink allows him to relinquish control after having to be strong and assertive in daily life.

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Show Notes

🎵 Sticks and stones may break my bones, But chains and whips excite me 🎶

BDSM 101

- Creator(s): Team Sadon Baekban

- Chapters: Season 2 + Side Story 2 (24-43)

- Where to read it: Lezhin

https://www.lezhinus.com/en/comic/bdsm101

Song Jeongwon is an active member of the BDSM community, offering guidance and advice to newcomers. One day, he comes across a distressing post from Kang Hoseob, a beginner who has fallen into the hands of an abusive dom and is seeking help.

Realizing that Hoseob lacks even the most basic knowledge of BDSM, Jeongwon steps in—not just to rescue him but to personally guide him as his temporary dom.

"Master, I'll be good...I promise."

Jeongwon takes on the challenge, but can he truly teach Hoseob the foundations of trust, consent, and desire before it's too late?

Where to Find us:

Matthew

- Bluesky: @matthewglenn.bsky.social

- https://bsky.app/profile/matthewglenn.bsky.social

- Website: DigitalDaydream.gay

Kate

- Bluesky: @ohmymithrandir.bsky.social

- https://bsky.app/profile/ohmymithrandir.bsky.social

- Instagram: @ohmymithrandir

- https://www.instagram.com/ohmymithrandir/

Music by Joshua Altman

- Bluesky: @crooknook.bsky.social

- https://bsky.app/profile/crooknook.bsky.social

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